Debra_L

It is challenging to be very positive about a novel when virtually every character (except the dog!) is so exasperating! Anna is such an empty vessel of a person and her lack of self-worth/spine became tiresome and infuriating. The male characters were unlikable in different ways, but both were manipulative, self-centered and toxic .

I found the multiple references to Camus, Jung and 'individuation' rather intrusive and distracting; but I am sure others will find it meaningful. Despite these negative comments, I was compelled to read to the end and was somewhat satisfied with the conclusion. I would hesitate to make a strong recommendation for this title, though I am not sorry to have read it.

This short 'journal/ diary/memoir was a thoughtful sharing of observations and feelings. The exploration of loss and grief was woven throughout, though there were plenty of chuckles as well. I found myself nodding at some of her pithy comments and interesting anecdotes. Written in short segments, I did find myself hoping for MORE—longer entries to expand the topics. Her writing is beautiful and meaningful and very relatable.

My biggest complaint would be its brevity. I wanted to read more about her handling of her mother's dementia, about her husband and their relationship, and about her group of friends (who sound amazing!). It was a great bedside book to read before retiring—short snippets that made you think.
I have recommended it to friends…..