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The Irish Goodbye by Beth Ann Fennelly

The Irish Goodbye

Micro-Memoirs

by Beth Ann Fennelly

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  • Feb 2026, 128 pages
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A new, genre–defying volume that explores family, marriage, motherhood, place, and coming of age with singular wit and emotional clarity.

What can we learn from an ordinary life observed with extraordinary skill? In The Irish Goodbye, Beth Ann Fennelly writes of the small moments that shape a life, whether moving or perplexing or troubling or gladdening, in the process dignifying the diminutive through the act of attention. Fennelly explores her roles as a friend, wife, mother, and daughter, documenting a brush with an old flame or the devastating death of her sister in crystalline, precise sentences.

The longer essays concern Fennelly's relationships―with a beloved mother-in-law, a decades-long friendship between five former college roommates, an artist who paints a series of nude portraits in Fennelly's town, for which she poses. Interspersed between these longer memoirs are sections of flash nonfiction, a form Fennelly innovated in the genre-defying Heating & Cooling. With dazzling verve and wit, they capture the interstitial interactions―encounters with strangers, quirky observations, unexpected flights of fancy―that make up a richly lived life.

The Irish Goodbye offers a rare pleasure: intimacy. With emotional clarity and nimble prose, Fennelly invites readers to share her affirming worldview―one in which even our smallest interactions are rife with possibility.

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"Although the book is about the deaths of people, ideas, eras, and self-perceptions, it's a fundamentally optimistic work concerned with exploring both the emotional underpinnings and transformational potential of aging, grief, and love. A lyrical and tender essay collection about loss." —Kirkus Reviews

"[Fennelly] transforms the mundane into the metaphysical under the heat of her gaze. With a poet's knack for concision and a novelist's deep well of empathy, Fennelly makes everyday moments worthy of close reading." ―Publishers Weekly

"The Irish Goodbye is a marvelous, masterful book of micro-memoirs that add up to a life full of humor, friendship, motherhood, joy, grief, and love...Beth Ann Fennelly dazzles us with her observations and brevity, her beautiful prose, her enormous heart." ―Ann Hood, author of The Stolen Child

"In these glittering little memoirs, Beth Ann Fennelly removes one protective garment after another until she exposes the poetry beneath life's troubles and pleasures...If The Irish Goodbye is a naked self-portrait, then let us all be naked." ―Bonnie Jo Campbell, author of The Waters

"This book knocked me sideways. I tore through it in a day and I'm still trying to catch my breath...I've long been a fan of Beth Ann Fennelly's work, but The Irish Goodbye is her best book yet." ―Jamie Quatro, author of Two-Step Devil

"Beth Ann Fennelly's writing flickers and shimmers like minnows just below the water's surface—quick, sharp, and radiantly alive. Each of these pieces is a marvel of compression and care, where humor sidles up next to heartbreak, and ordinary moments are cast in an enticing, golden light... . This book is such a great catch, such a bounty!" —Aimee Nezhukumatathil, author of Bite by Bite

"Every word in these essays—whether open-armed and loving, brokenhearted and howling, or winking with wit—is perfectly chosen and perfectly placed... . This book faces what it means to say goodbye, but it is also absolutely alight with life." —Margaret Renkl, author of The Comfort of Crows

"What a terrific writer! In language as much poetry as prose, and spectacular poetry at that, Beth Ann Fennelly captures the usually overlooked moments of our lives." —Tim O'Brien, author of The Things They Carried

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Tracy R. (Raleigh, NC)

An author I will continue to follow
I really enjoyed this collection after I was fully rooted in it. The author weaves a narrative about life in all its' glory and gloom, including grief, that made me want to keep turning pages. Recommended for fans of Dani Shapiro's nonfiction, Mary Laura Philpott, and Catherine Newman.

Darlene_Goetzman

Will Reread
This is the second book of Beth Ann Fennely's I've read. Her writing is witty, vulnerable and often poignant. She is a master of the twist, and I am in awe of her skill and will read anything she writes. I read a lot of micro-memoir because this style appeals to me. Still, I wanted a tad more of a narrative thread in this book; the theme of Irish Goodbye moves in and out, but I wanted a little more connective tissue and reflection. Maybe it was in the sequencing of the pieces which are as short as one line and others a few pages? I will reread this to see if I missed something, and I will recommend it.

Brenda_Wychock

A heartfelt read
The Irish Goodbye.

Micro memoirs by Beth Ann Fennelly is a sweet and touching book . I really enjoyed reading this book. It is well written and very enjoyable book. There are a lot of deeply felt emotions in this read. I would think this will be a great choice for women's book clubs. I plan on reading more from Beth Ann Fennelly.

Carol_Dirks

What a delight!
I wasn't sure what to expect, especially when the first "micro memoir" was just seven lines long. But wow, can Ms. Fennelly tell a story. She drew me into her essays and then surprised the dickens out of me with her final line. I knew and understood her characters; I wanted to be one of her roomies. Her wry, witty insights made me laugh out loud. Her poignant, thoughtful portraits of her mom and sister were so incredibly touching. I was impressed with how respectful she was with all of her characters.
My judge of a good book is if I would share it with my mom. Although she's deceased, I know she would have loved this book as much as I did. I'm definitely recommending this book to others, and I look forward to reading her earlier books. I hope she dusts off that unpublished novel.

Deb Connelly Sheppard

Enjoyable And Heartwarming
Author Beth Ann Fennelly, wrote a quick, enjoyable and at times emotional reading as she goes through the stages of life.

The stages of her life, is so relatable to many of us, from the unexpected loss of a sibling to her mother’s battle with a devastating disease. Everyday look at marriage, and friendships that grow and change through the years.

Give this heartwarming book a read, but kept a box of tissues handy!

Judith_G

A book to cherish
Beth Ann Fennelly had me at the first page. Somehow, in a micro-memory of a folded oven mitt, one brief paragraph long, she conveys the love, humor, warmth, tenacity, patience and forgiveness that make up a good and long marriage.   
   
The Irish Goodbye is like a series of brief visits with a close friend over a fence, coffee or wine. Her anecdotes run the gamut of emotions from laugh-out-loud to heart-breaking. Sometimes her words stopped me in my tracks. (Fennelly was the poet laureate Mississippi.) For example, the title refers to an Irish habit of abruptly leaving a party without a goodbye, and Fennelly applies that to her beloved sister's unexpected, sudden death with: "How, without farewells, you slipped out the back door of the party of your life, O my sister."

This is a book to cherish. It deals with universal problems and joys. There are many treasures in it, poignant, moving, funny. The final piece is titled, "Dear Viewer of My Naked Body." Fennelly, a middle-aged woman living in the Bible Belt agreed to pose naked for an artist, and her telling of why she did and how it was and what it meant should become a classic.

I know I'll dip into this book many more times, and always with pleasure and appreciation.

postscript: Another book with the same title was recently released. I haven't read the other book, but I nonetheless am sure Beth Ann Fennelly's exceptional memoir is the one to add to your library.

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Beth Ann Fennelly

Beth Ann Fennelly, poet laureate of Mississippi from 2016 to 2021, is the author of six books, most recently, Heating & Cooling: 52 Micro-Memoirs. She lives with her husband and their three children in Oxford, Mississippi.

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