Book Summary and Reviews of Tenderness by Rowan Beaird

Tenderness by Rowan Beaird

Tenderness

A Novel

by Rowan Beaird

  • Critics' Consensus (10):
  • Readers' Rating (9):
  • Publishes:
  • Jul 21, 2026, 304 pages
  • Rate this book

About this book

Book Summary

From the beloved author of The Divorcées comes a novel set in the 1970s during an island wedding, where the bride has recently left a sinister cult that might still be trailing her.

On a remote island off the coast of Virginia, family and friends gather to celebrate the wedding of Shay O'Connor and Andrew Pruitt. From the moment the guests arrive, all they can whisper about is the bride, who recently left the headline-making cult Synanon. Why would someone like Shay, an Ivy League graduate with a wealthy, doting fiancée, join Synanon? And has she really escaped their grasp?

Told from the interwoven perspectives of Shay's brother William, her longtime friend Joel, and Shay herself, Tenderness is a slow-burn mystery that excavates dark family histories and romantic regrets. As the wedding day approaches, Joel and William pull at the loose threads of Shay's story, and it becomes clear there is an even greater threat on the island than the secrets each character is keeping from one another.

Set in the tinderbox of the 1970s, Tenderness is a lit match, bringing hidden truths to light and asking if we can ever see ourselves or the people we love for who they truly are.

Membership Advantages
  • Reviews
  • "Beyond the Book" articles
  • Free books to read and review (US only)
  • Find books by time period, setting & theme
  • Read-alike suggestions by book and author
  • Book club discussions
  • and much more!
  • Just $60 for 12 months or $20 for 3 months.
  • More about membership!

Reviews

Media Reviews

"Simmering…Beaird crafts a mesmerizing meditation on the corrosive power of self-deception that will have even experienced suspense readers holding their breath. It's a satisfying slow burn." —Publishers Weekly

"Strong ingredients, but as with the dessert at the elegant rehearsal dinner, something is off." —Kirkus Reviews

"A mystery from the first page to the last…The family's secrets threaten to spill over as anticipation builds, and the result is a novel that feels like a true event, written with snappy prose and a pace that stretches out the mystery but never feels too slow. This book is great for readers who love complicated entanglements and secrets galore." —Booklist

"Sly, elegant and menacing, Rowan Beaird's Tenderness is an intoxicating tale of love and danger, terror and deceit. You'll find yourself turning page after page, utterly swept up in the heady spell it casts, and the emotional heft that rises to an astonishing crescendo." —Megan Abbott, New York Times bestselling author of The Turnout

"Tenderness has the page-turning drive of a thoughtful thriller, but with the guts and heart of the best Ann Patchett family novels. Rowan Beaird knows how to get inside the messy connective tissue between siblings, between lovers, between parents and children, and drill down to the truth there, in graceful, piercing prose. Tenderness is completely captivating." —Emily Everett, author of Reese's Book Club pick All That Life Can Afford

"Tenderness, Rowan Beaird's indelible latest, is a taut, atmospheric novel set against the encroaching sea and the uneasy glow of privilege. A sense of unease saturates the proceedings, with each character on the cusp of a decision that will alter the course of their life. Tenderness explores the tides of intimacy, the edges of family, and the missed moments we try desperately to catch before they slip away into the unseen beyond." —Sarah Blakley-Cartwright, author of Alice Sadie Celine

"Tenderness is a delicately rendered story about an intimate group of young people scrambling for purchase in an uncertain time. Beaird's gorgeous prose, as well as her capacious view of the human condition, had me riveted from page one." —Hannah Pittard, author of If You Love It, Let It Kill You

"In Tenderness, Rowan Beaird is in total command. Lush and disquieting and impossible to shake, I finished Tenderness in one sitting, heart pounding, and I haven't stopped thinking about it since. Evocative and hot to the touch, this is the sort of novel I'm always looking for." —Chelsea Bieker, bestselling author of Madwoman and Godshot

This information about Tenderness was first featured in "The BookBrowse Review" - BookBrowse's membership magazine, and in our weekly "Publishing This Week" newsletter. Publication information is for the USA, and (unless stated otherwise) represents the first print edition. The reviews are necessarily limited to those that were available to us ahead of publication. If you are the publisher or author and feel that they do not properly reflect the range of media opinion now available, send us a message with the mainstream reviews that you would like to see added.

Any "Author Information" displayed below reflects the author's biography at the time this particular book was published.

Reader Reviews

Write your own reviewwrite your own review

Kristine_A

Kept My Attention
I enjoyed the fact that the emphasis is on character development rather than action. But would have been enjoyed learning more about the inner workings of cults (like Synanon) and how they manipulate intelligent people to join and stay.

Sherrie_Y

Atmospheric, character-driven story set in the 1970's
3.5 stars

This is my first introduction to Rowan Beaird. I was intrigued by the premise and the time period. The book is set in the 1970's against the backdrop of a wedding happening on an island off the coast of Virginia. There was a cult aspect described that involves the bride, Shay. This was enough to pique my interest, so I requested the advance copy.

I found Beaird's writing extremely readable and lyrical. The story weaves POV's from Shay, her brother William, and her ex-boyfriend Joel, who are all attending the wedding. We learn about each character's history and Shay and William's family growing up. The cult elements are there, but in the end, they fell a bit flat for me.

The most intriguing parts of this story for me were the clash of haves and have-nots, complicated family histories, and the lengths that the characters go to (especially William and Joel) in protecting Shay. The atmosphere of the island was a character in itself. It really brought the book to life for me. This is a character-driven story, so if you're looking for a fast-moving plot, this is probably not the choice.

Thank you to Flatiron Books, BookBrowse, and NetGalley for the advanced e-ARC.

Debra_F

Tender
Tenderness by Rowan Beaird is a beautifully written story that unfolds at a gentle pace, allowing the characters and their relationships to develop naturally. While I found the beginning a bit slow, I appreciated how the story gradually drew me in.

One of my favorite aspects was the alternating points of view, which gave each character a distinct voice and added depth to the emotional journey. The shifting perspectives helped me better understand the motivations and vulnerabilities of everyone involved.
This is a thoughtful, character-driven novel that explores love, family, and the complicated choices we make. Readers who enjoy quieter stories with strong emotional undercurrents and well-developed characters will likely find much to appreciate here.

Thank you to BookBrowse & NetGalley and the publisher for the opportunity to read and review this ARC.

Chris (CA)

Tenderness
This story hooked me from the beginning. The writing is beautiful, and the complex characters are fairly well developed. I learned a little more about Synanon. I liked having the story told by three different narrators. The plot developed slowly, at a steady pace, with emotional tension and a somewhat ominous feeling hanging over it. Themes of complex family dynamics, love, friendship, heartbreak, disappointment, and grief would be good discussion topics for a book club. I wanted a little more detail about the ending and how it affected various characters.

Carolyn_L1

A good choice for a book group
From the moment I started Tenderness, I became involved with the characters and was very curious about where they would be when the book ended. This isn't to say that I liked them or even found them easy to understand, but I definitely cared about them. The issues the characters faced were difficult. Most of action in the book happens at a destination wedding which takes place over a long weekend providing for moments of reflection and looking back over what happened prior to the wedding.

I enjoyed the author's writing very much. Her descriptions are excellent; I felt I could actually see what was happening. I believe this would be an excellent choice for a book group. Discussing the characters, their actions and their decisions would provide opportunities for discussion. I feel certain there would be disagreements on how characters acted which always provides for good interaction among book club members.

I will look forward to reading other books by this author and thank BookBrowse and NetGalley for allowing to read Tenderness and offer some thoughts.

Patricia_Linville

Too Slow Tenderness
Shay, a recent escapee from the notorious cult Synanon, is to be wed to her affluent boyfriend over the weekend at his parent's island getaway. Among the guests, tension ebbs and flows as cult members are spotted and an old boyfriend rekindles his relationship with Shay.

Family dynamics, cult culture, possible murder, violence, the value of telling the truth and the differences between the haves and have nots alternately rise to the surface and quietly sink in this hard to define genre of a novel. Possibly part murder mystery and romance, a few of the characters are interesting, yet the action or lack thereof, tends to confuse and slow the already rather banal story.

...3 more reader reviews

Membership Advantages
  • Reviews
  • "Beyond the Book" articles
  • Free books to read and review (US only)
  • Find books by time period, setting & theme
  • Read-alike suggestions by book and author
  • Book club discussions
  • and much more!
  • Just $60 for 12 months or $20 for 3 months.
  • More about membership!

Author Information

Rowan Beaird

Rowan Beaird's fiction has appeared in The Southern Review, Ploughshares, and Gulf Coast. She lives in Chicago with her husband and daughter. The Divorcées is her first novel.

More Author Information

Membership Advantages
  • Reviews
  • "Beyond the Book" articles
  • Free books to read and review (US only)
  • Find books by time period, setting & theme
  • Read-alike suggestions by book and author
  • Book club discussions
  • and much more!
  • Just $60 for 12 months or $20 for 3 months.
  • More about membership!

Read-Alikes

Read-Alikes Full readalike results are for members only

If you liked Tenderness, try these:

  • Some Bright Nowhere jacket

    Some Bright Nowhere

    by Ann Packer

    Published 2026

    About this book

    The bestselling, beloved author returns with her first novel in over a decade, an intimate and profoundly moving look at a long marriage and the ways in which a startling request can change a couple's understanding of who they are, together and apart.

  • The Ten Year Affair jacket

    The Ten Year Affair

    by Erin Somers

    Published 2025

    About this book

    A hilariously acerbic sliding doors novel about a chance meeting between two young parents, both happily married (just not to each other) that sparks a will-they-won't-they romance—perfect for fans of Big Swiss and Acts of Service.

  • No Fault jacket

    No Fault

    by Haley Mlotek

    Published 2025

    About this book

    An intimate and candid account of one of the most romantic and revolutionary of relationships: divorce.

We have 11 read-alikes for Tenderness, but non-members are limited to three results. Join free to see the complete list of recommendations.
Search read-alikes
How we choose read-alikes

More Literary Fiction

Browse all Literary Fiction books

Membership Advantages
  • Reviews
  • "Beyond the Book" articles
  • Free books to read and review (US only)
  • Find books by time period, setting & theme
  • Read-alike suggestions by book and author
  • Book club discussions
  • and much more!
  • Just $60 for 12 months or $20 for 3 months.
  • More about membership!
Book Club Giveaway!
Win L.A. Women

L.A. Women by Ella Berman

Two ambitious writers in 1960s LA face betrayal when one writes a novel based on the other's life.

Enter

BookBrowse Book Club

  • Book Jacket
    The Cloak and Dagger Club
    by Jackie McMahon
    Inspired by Agatha Christie's Detection Club, a murder mystery and second-chance romance collide.
  • Book Jacket
    Days of Sun and Shadow
    by India Hayford
    A young woman’s coming-of-age story set in the early American frontier, shaped by tragedy, nature, and resilience.
  • Book Jacket
    Chelsea Girls
    by Catherine Lloyd
    A glamorous biographical novel on Mary Quant, whose daring design of the miniskirt revolutionized fashion.
  • Book Jacket
    Merry-Go-Round Broke Down
    by David Woo, Margalit Shinar
    Nine linked stories reveal how globalization sparks life-changing consequences across continents.

Members Recommend

  • Book Jacket
    An Infinite Love Story
    by Chanel Cleeton
    “A tender, romantic drama that soars as high as it’s astronauts.” —Kate Quinn
  • Book Jacket
    Summer of Love
    by Kerri Maher
    Three women reshape their family's Napa Valley winery after the 1967 Summer of Love.
Book
Trivia
  • Book Trivia

    Can you name the title?

    Test your book knowledge with our daily trivia challenge!

Wordplay

Solve this clue:

The C is A R

and be entered to win..

Your guide toexceptional          books

BookBrowse seeks out and recommends the best in contemporary fiction and nonfiction—books that not only engage and entertain but also deepen our understanding of ourselves and the world around us.