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Tenderness by Rowan Beaird

Tenderness

A Novel

by Rowan Beaird

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  • Jul 21, 2026, 304 pages
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From the beloved author of The Divorcées comes a novel set in the 1970s during an island wedding, where the bride has recently left a sinister cult that might still be trailing her.

On a remote island off the coast of Virginia, family and friends gather to celebrate the wedding of Shay O'Connor and Andrew Pruitt. From the moment the guests arrive, all they can whisper about is the bride, who recently left the headline-making cult Synanon. Why would someone like Shay, an Ivy League graduate with a wealthy, doting fiancée, join Synanon? And has she really escaped their grasp?

Told from the interwoven perspectives of Shay's brother William, her longtime friend Joel, and Shay herself, Tenderness is a slow-burn mystery that excavates dark family histories and romantic regrets. As the wedding day approaches, Joel and William pull at the loose threads of Shay's story, and it becomes clear there is an even greater threat on the island than the secrets each character is keeping from one another.

Set in the tinderbox of the 1970s, Tenderness is a lit match, bringing hidden truths to light and asking if we can ever see ourselves or the people we love for who they truly are.

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"Simmering…Beaird crafts a mesmerizing meditation on the corrosive power of self-deception that will have even experienced suspense readers holding their breath. It's a satisfying slow burn." —Publishers Weekly

"Sly, elegant and menacing, Rowan Beaird's Tenderness is an intoxicating tale of love and danger, terror and deceit. You'll find yourself turning page after page, utterly swept up in the heady spell it casts, and the emotional heft that rises to an astonishing crescendo." —Megan Abbott, New York Times bestselling author of The Turnout

"Tenderness has the page-turning drive of a thoughtful thriller, but with the guts and heart of the best Ann Patchett family novels. Rowan Beaird knows how to get inside the messy connective tissue between siblings, between lovers, between parents and children, and drill down to the truth there, in graceful, piercing prose. Tenderness is completely captivating." —Emily Everett, author of Reese's Book Club pick All That Life Can Afford

"Tenderness, Rowan Beaird's indelible latest, is a taut, atmospheric novel set against the encroaching sea and the uneasy glow of privilege. A sense of unease saturates the proceedings, with each character on the cusp of a decision that will alter the course of their life. Tenderness explores the tides of intimacy, the edges of family, and the missed moments we try desperately to catch before they slip away into the unseen beyond." —Sarah Blakley-Cartwright, author of Alice Sadie Celine

"Tenderness is a delicately rendered story about an intimate group of young people scrambling for purchase in an uncertain time. Beaird's gorgeous prose, as well as her capacious view of the human condition, had me riveted from page one." —Hannah Pittard, author of If You Love It, Let It Kill You

"In Tenderness, Rowan Beaird is in total command. Lush and disquieting and impossible to shake, I finished Tenderness in one sitting, heart pounding, and I haven't stopped thinking about it since. Evocative and hot to the touch, this is the sort of novel I'm always looking for." —Chelsea Bieker, bestselling author of Madwoman and Godshot

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Carolyn_L1

A good choice for a book group
From the moment I started Tenderness, I became involved with the characters and was very curious about where they would be when the book ended. This isn't to say that I liked them or even found them easy to understand, but I definitely cared about them. The issues the characters faced were difficult. Most of action in the book happens at a destination wedding which takes place over a long weekend providing for moments of reflection and looking back over what happened prior to the wedding.

I enjoyed the author's writing very much. Her descriptions are excellent; I felt I could actually see what was happening. I believe this would be an excellent choice for a book group. Discussing the characters, their actions and their decisions would provide opportunities for discussion. I feel certain there would be disagreements on how characters acted which always provides for good interaction among book club members.

I will look forward to reading other books by this author and thank BookBrowse and NetGalley for allowing to read Tenderness and offer some thoughts.

jillg

A Slow-Burn of Secrets and Suspicion
TENDERNESS
By Rowan Beaird

3.5 stars rounded down
Set in the 1970s on a remote island off the coast of Virginia, Tenderness unfolds over the weekend of Shay and Andrew's wedding. Having recently escaped a violent cult, Shay arrives carrying emotional scars and secrets from her past. As family and friends gather to celebrate, tensions simmer beneath the surface. Shay's brother, William, hopes to reconnect with her, while Joel, a former boyfriend, struggles with unresolved feelings. Rumors of an uninvited guest only add to the growing unease.

This is a slow-burn literary suspense novel that leans more heavily into family drama and character exploration than cult thriller. Told through the perspectives of Shay, William, and Joel, the story maintains a sense of foreboding, with the cult's shadow lingering over much of the narrative. As the wedding weekend progresses, it becomes clear that nearly everyone is keeping secrets.

The emphasis here is on emotional tension, relationships, and character development rather than plot-driven suspense. The characters are messy and flawed—which I generally appreciate—but I found many of them frustrating, making it difficult for me to fully connect with their journeys. The mystery didn't truly gain momentum for me until the final quarter of the book.

I did enjoy the isolated island setting, which added to the atmosphere and sense of confinement. This was my first experience with Rowan Beaird's work, and while Tenderness was ultimately an okay read for me, I would be open to reading more from her in the future.

The audiobook narration was solid, and I appreciated having different narrators for each of the main characters, which helped distinguish the shifting perspectives.

Thank you to NetGalley and BookBrowse for the eARC

Nicole F. (Bay Village, OH)

Disappointing
The novel Tenderness by Rowan Beaird comprises 5% dialogue and 95% "tell, don't show" narrative in the form of long, interior, explanatory passages, sapping the story of energy and ultimately preventing the reader from engaging with the characters and story.

Astonishingly, Tenderness gives little to no sense of Synanon — not the cult's complexities, evolutions, and deep evils, its methods and expansions, its leaders and yes-men — although Synanon was supposed to be a primary component of the novel.

The novel evokes virtually nothing of the year 1976, despite some throwaway phrases about clothing. It conveys no sense of era at all.

William and Joel both come across as uninteresting losers; they certainly aren't characters who could earn and sustain the reader's attention. And Shay is more of a concept than a character. These problems are due in part to the "tell, don't show" narrative, but run deeper than that: the three main characters don't give the reader any reason to invest in them, for better or worse.

Tenderness as a novel is neither "tender" nor tough — thus the title is a head-scratching misnomer.

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Rowan Beaird

Rowan Beaird's fiction has appeared in The Southern Review, Ploughshares, and Gulf Coast. She lives in Chicago with her husband and daughter. The Divorcées is her first novel.

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