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Ordinary Love by Marie Rutkoski

Ordinary Love

A Novel

by Marie Rutkoski

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  • Jun 2025, 368 pages
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A page-turning, irresistible novel of class, ambition, and bisexuality, this is the breathtaking story of a woman risking everything for a second chance at her first love.

Emily has, by all appearances, a perfect life: a townhouse on Manhattan's Upper East Side, two healthy children, and a husband who showers her with attention. But the truth is more complicated: Emily's marriage is in trouble, her relationship with her parents is fraught, and she is still nursing a heartbreak from long ago. When Emily runs into her high school girlfriend at a cocktail party, that heartbreak comes roaring back. But Gen Hall is no longer the lanky, hungry kid with holes in her shoes who Emily loved in her youth. Instead, Gen is now a famous Olympic athlete with sponsorship deals and a string of high-profile ex-girlfriends. Emily and Gen circle one another cautiously, drawn together by a magnetic attraction and scarred by their shared history. Once upon a time, Gen knew everything about Emily. And yet, she still abandoned her. Can Emily trust Gen again? Can they forgive each other for the mistakes they made in their past? Should Emily risk her children, her privacy, and the fragile peace she has found to be with a woman she loved long ago?

A sweeping queer romance, Ordinary Love is the beautiful, wrenching, completely seductive story of two people trying to forge a path toward hope, bound by a love they discovered when they were too young to understand its power.

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"A raw and moving second-chance love story that tenderly tracks a woman's determined efforts to regain self-worth as she heals from an abusive marriage and reunites with a past love...Rutkoski tracks their slow rekindling in stunning prose that skillfully weaves past and present. The result is a brutal yet beautiful story that captures what it means to genuinely support, cherish, and love another person." —Publishers Weekly (starred review)

"Tender and finely written. The women's love for one another…is central, but Emily's journey to rescue her autonomy and creativity, and protect her children, is just as stirring. This…novel burns slow, drawing the reader deep into the protagonist's interiority and through the emotional turbulence that shakes Emily's most important relationships…A sexy, bittersweet novel with characters that peel off the page." —Kirkus Reviews

"Recommend[ed] to fans of complicated, emotional love stories." —Booklist

"This novel is remarkable and profoundly moving. A beautifully written, intelligent, quietly hopeful story about being lost and found." —Emily St. John Mandel, New York Times bestselling author of Sea of Tranquility

"This is an almost unbearably beautiful love story. Emily and Gen feel completely real: on the rare occasion I managed to put this book down, I thought about them constantly. It broke my heart to let them go when I turned the final page. Ordinary Love is extraordinary." —Emilia Hart, New York Times bestselling author of Weyward

"I loved this novel. I didn't want to stop reading it for anything. Ordinary Love is a riveting portrait of a woman taking control of her life. A brilliant examination of queerness, friendship, motherhood, longing and ambition. It's funny and moving and sexy. Above all, it's a stunning love story." —J. Courtney Sullivan, bestselling author of The Cliffs

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Peggy K. (Frederick, CO)

Brought Back Butterflies
Ordinary Love is a transcendent and butterfly-inducing love story. I could not put this one down, and I'm normally not attracted (pun intended) to domestic love stories. The themes of regret and repression are redolent, but yet there's this poignant whiff of hope that keeps the reader pushing on through the characters' questionable choices. Even though the love story is one between two women, it is ultimately a story about dealing with the consequences of our decisions. Powerful and potent, this tale will stay with you long after you put it down.

Deborah G. (Black Mountain, NC)

Love is Love
Emily is the central character of Marie Rutkoski's novel "Ordinary Love." We met her at her country home in upstate New York with her husband Jack, 10-year-old son Connor, and his younger sister Stella. Emily's confronting Jack concerning an incident with the children provides our entry into an examination of her marriage, relationships with childhood friends, her parents, acquaintances, and sexual partners. As is true of most relationships, Emily struggles with communicating, building trust, and resolving conflicts.

Rutkoski writes memorably about these interactions, but the relationships are fraught with missed opportunities for resolution. At a few points I dreaded reading what happened next—would she fail? We get glimpses throughout the book into lives of the elites—wealthy families and top-level athletes—that sometimes made me feel more excluded than informed. Overall, the author compellingly portrays the perils and rewards of the quest for ordinary love.

Avery Miller (Beach Dog Books, HI)

Ordinary Love
Ordinary Love is a beautifully written depiction of love, loss, and struggling to find yourself and your way through adulthood. Marie Rutkoski's writing pulls you in from the very first chapter, and convinces you to root for her characters as though they are your friends. She balances a heart-snagging love story with a tale of becoming a prisoner to the 'perfect life.' Ordinary Love is tender, brutal, and a stunning depiction of navigating life.

Terrie J. (Eagan, MN)

Great book
This book was about the ups and downs of love. It was about first love, friendship love, marriage love, motherhood love and being comfortable when you discover your true love. I found myself wondering which direction the book would take. I was also empathetic to the main characters and their feelings as they changed throughout the story. It was a page turner, and I was sad to see it end.

I would recommend this book to high schoolers and up. It may give clarity to the difficulties one faces when dealing with love gone right or wrong. It will make you laugh and cry.

Beth B. (New Wilmington, PA)

Is love ever ordinary?
Most importantly, I strongly urge you to read this book and encourage your fellow readers to do so. Marie Rutkoski has a gift for writing "take your breath away" prose as evidenced in her novel Ordinary Love. Her characters are so well fleshed out that you feel you know them, their best and worst selves. Nella is my favorite --- hers is a wisdom that is enviable.

The symbol of seeds runs throughout the book: :"seeds can live a long time." All readers, regardless of preconceived ideas, can learn much about compromising and confronting loss. The author's skill with understanding children, their thoughts and speech, are unparalleled.

JanineS

Intelligent and poignant love story
In spite of what the title says, this is not an “ordinary love” story. As one of the characters, Gen, says near the end, “nothing in life is ordinary.” This book is a love story of contrasts: Emily and Gen, high school sweethearts and Emily and Jack, the traditional man-woman love story. Each is fraught with problems, and each offers Emily choices as she grapples with discovering who she really is and what she wants out of life and love. In between these alternating stories, we see the impact of Emily’s love choices on her parents, her friends, and her children. As she grows and assumes responsibility for her decisions, we learn that she understands that in accepting a “second chance” at love, love can be ordinary in its truth but extraordinary in its honesty.

This is a beautifully written book. I was surprised how I was drawn to it as it was at times outside my comfort zone, but there was such a deep, searing honesty to it, I simply had to know the ending. It was a splendid read!

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Marie Rutkoski Author Biography

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Marie Rutkoski is New York Times bestselling author of books for children and young adults, including The Shadow Society and the Kronos Chronicles, which includes The Cabinet of Wonders. She published her first novel for adults, Real Easy, in 2022. Rutkoski is a professor of English literature at Brooklyn College and lives in Brooklyn with her family.

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