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The Critic's Daughter by Priscilla Gilman

The Critic's Daughter

A Memoir

by Priscilla Gilman

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  • Feb 2023, 304 pages
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An exquisitely rendered portrait of a unique father-daughter relationship and a moving memoir of family and identity.

Growing up on the Upper West Side of New York City in the 1970s, in an apartment filled with dazzling literary and artistic characters, Priscilla Gilman worshiped her brilliant, adoring, and mercurial father, the writer, theater critic, and Yale School of Drama professor Richard Gilman. But when Priscilla was ten years old, her mother, renowned literary agent Lynn Nesbit, abruptly announced that she was ending the marriage. The resulting cascade of disturbing revelations―about her parents' hollow marriage, her father's double life and tortured sexual identity―fundamentally changed Priscilla's perception of her father, as she attempted to protect him from the depression that had long shadowed him.

A wrenching story about what it means to be the daughter of a demanding parent, a revelatory window into the impact of divorce, and a searching reflection on the nature of art and criticism, The Critic's Daughter is an unflinching account of loss and grief―and a radiant testament of forgiveness and love.

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"Passionate, resonant, and beautifully written…Evokes both a uniquely brilliant and troubled man and the poignantly relatable essence of the father-daughter connection." - Kirkus Reviews (starred review)

"This is an eye-opening testament to the lasting wounds of divorce." - Publishers Weekly

"The Critic's Daughter is an exquisite and rare example of how the memoir needs as much inventiveness in scope and form as our most lush fiction and poetry. Priscilla Gilman writes sentences I never see coming, and those sentences splinter into a textured model of how to write about―and through―art, perpetual discovery, and parenting. I've read few books in my life as skillfully executed and willfully conceived as The Critic's Daughter. This should not work. But my goodness, it just does." - Kiese Laymon, author of Heavy

"Beautiful: honest, raw, careful, soulful, brave and incredibly readable." - Nick Hornby, author of Just Like You

"The Critic's Daughter holds so many joys in store for you: The joy of disappearing into a finely crafted world―in this case, of Gilman's mind, heart, and personal history. The joy of encountering a text sprinkled with insights, like so many pearls. But most of all, the joy of basking in Priscilla Gilman's capacious love―for her father, for her family, and for you, her reader." - Susan Cain, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Bittersweet and Quiet

"The Critic's Daughter is first and foremost a very touching love story about a father, a daughter, and their unbreakable bond. Priscilla Gilman writes with eloquence and absolute candor of her late father Richard Gilman, the esteemed, brilliant, but deeply troubled drama and literary critic.… An unforgettable read, The Critic's Daughter is as entertaining as it is moving." - James Lapine, Pulitzer Prize-winning playwright

"The Critic's Daughter is an exquisite love song, a riveting story, a book for our time. Any daughter with a father, anyone who has been part of a family, anyone who has struggled with loving, anyone interested in literary criticism, or the theater, or life, this is a book for you." - Andre Gregory, theater director, writer, and star of My Dinner With Andre

"The daughter of an unsparing critic, Priscilla Gilman has written a book her father would have deeply admired: a tender, unflinching memoir that is also a searching reflection on the relationship between criticism and love. The father she lost is vividly captured in this moving, gracefully written, bracingly honest book." - Eyal Press, author of Dirty Work

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Linda J. (Urbana, OH)

My Heart Belongs to Daddy
Richard Gilman was an author and critic who had 3 adoring children through 2 broken marriages. His elder daughter (from marriage #2) realizes at a very young age what a doting father she has. Her reflections demonstrate a preternatural recognition of her father's love and affection - even through her mother's constant denigration of her former husband. With verbal precision which her father would appreciate (he who recognized originality and creativity). Brought tears to my eyes throughout my perusal of her story.

wdh-kentucky

Father / Daughter - Love and Drama
This is a very well-written, thoughtful memoir and homage to a father/daughter relationship from child through adult. That she loved her father very much but is still able to share his imperfections comes through so clearly in her writing. It was a pleasure to read this book that describes people, theatre, writers, critics, etc. that surrounded her as a child. She makes you feel like you are there with her meeting and watching all of the people and places. Reading through this book you journey with her as she grows from child to adult, becomes more aware of personalities and all of the complications that family and relationships bring to life. Highly recommend this book.

Jane_M

Surprising
I knew nothing about Richard Gilman and frankly didn't care much about him once I knew who he was. However, this powerfully written memoir by his daughter made me care about him and his relationship with his daughter. It is clear that she was very devoted to him and that his character helped to shape her. Her writing was wonderful and drew me in. Her insightfulness about herself and her father was compelling. Wonderful read.

Becky_S

Daddy's girl
A beautiful memoir of a father who was imperfect and human. I loved the realness of this author's recollection of growing up and her relationship with her dad before, during, and after her parents divorce. Being a daddy's girl myself, I could totally relate with her feelings of loving him so fiercely and also trying to protect him and keep him happy. Even though it can be a hard lesson, to learn that our parents are humans and also have flaws, it was easy to see that her father loved her and her sister more than anything and was always doing the best job that he could to protect her and cheer her on in life. I really enjoyed this book and the relationship that was portrayed.

Diana P. (Schulenburg, TX)

The Critic's Daughter
I was not familiar with the name Richard Gilman and had no inkling what he was a critic of. The story his daughter presents is understandingly heart warming and heart breaking. I admire Priscilla's patience and kindness to her father and her ability to understand what was happening. She had a rough time but she came out whole and stronger. Her book is just so moving, bringing the reader into her world. This is a book that will stay with you for a long time.

Peggy_H

Homage to a Father
When I started this book, I knew nothing about the critic Richard Gilman or his works. The world that the author, his daughter, describes--New York City intelligentsia, artists, and writers is equally unknown. Yet I reveled in the vivid descriptions, and the touching memories of a well-loved father; it kept me awake remembering my own father.

The writing is exquisite; I am amazed that she remembers so many details of her childhood. Be prepared that she does not sugar-coat her father, he is a fully realized person. At the beginning of the book he is shown through child-like eyes, and then as she grows, so do his personality, faults, and virtues.

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Priscilla Gilman

Priscilla Gilman is the author of the memoir The Anti-Romantic Child and a former professor of English literature at Yale University and Vassar College. Her writing has appeared in the New York Times, O, the Oprah Magazine, and elsewhere. She lives in New York City.

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