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Nesting by Roisín O'Donnell

Nesting

A Novel

by Roisín O'Donnell
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  • Feb 18, 2025, 400 pages
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From an unforgettable new voice in Irish fiction, a heart-pounding, life-affirming story about one woman trying to leave her marriage and start over.

On a bright spring afternoon, Ciara Fay makes a split-second decision that will change everything. Grabbing an armful of clothes off the clothesline, she straps her two young daughters into her car and drives away. Head spinning, all she knows for certain is that home is no longer safe—and that this time, when she leaves, she must stay away.

On the surface, she has a perfect life: her husband, Ryan, is a good provider, sometimes even kind and attentive, from a nice Irish family, and they have another baby on the way. But he also monitors Ciara's every move, flies into unpredictable rages where he convinces her she can do nothing right, and has isolated her from work, friends, and her beloved family.

Was fleeing the right thing to do? With no job and no support, Ciara struggles to provide a sense of normalcy for her little girls. Facing a broken housing system, they move into a hotel room on a floor reserved for women like her, eating takeout, washing their clothes in the bathroom sink, and building a community with the other residents. Ryan, meanwhile, wages a relentless campaign to win her back, and Ciara wavers. He never hit her, after all, and don't the girls need a stable home?

For fans of Claire Keegan and Louise Kennedy, Roisín O'Donnell's extraordinary debut creates a devastating and suspenseful portrait of gaslighting and emotional abuse—and even better, a triumphant story about family, love, and finding a new place to nest.

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I finished Becoming Madam Secretary and enjoyed it very much. I thought it was perfectly crafted historical fiction, and I'm looking forward to the discussion next week. I just started Nesting by Roisín O'Donnell. It's a fast but intense read about a woman trying to leave her emotionally abusive ...
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The reader anxiously follows Ciara as she tries to get help from various government services and organizations. O'Donnell is painfully realistic about the challenges of relying on these types of assistance, and brilliantly conveys the stress that underlies even Ciara's most mundane days... Nesting often reads like a thriller, partly because of these tense, anxiety-inducing scenes in which Ciara's livelihood is at risk, and partly because of Ryan's presence looming over the narrative...continued

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Book Reporter
Achingly real… both maddening and entirely believable… Readers will be passionately rooting for Ciara to make it… O'Donnell's novel may inspire American readers to discuss the similarities and differences between the housing crises in the US and Ireland, and to consider how Ciara's situation might have played out differently if she was in the States.

Electric Literature
Nesting rejects the easy answers about leaving abusive relationships... [It is] an odyssey to find shelter, a home, and ultimately peace of mind… O'Donnell [brings] granular details to her portrait of a woman learning to live on her own terms, for herself and for her children."

New York Journal of Books
Nesting is one of those rare novels where the plot and writing are so powerful that a reader has to step away every now and then, just to breathe... Piercing in both its description and its insight... the book succeeds brilliantly at showing the manipulation, terror, confusion, and self-doubt of this sort of abuse—long before Ciara understands all of this herself.

New York Times Book Review
Nesting, Roisín O'Donnell's gripping debut novel, contains all the twists and turns of a classic thriller… tense and propulsive from the very beginning… immersive and emotional… Like every worthy thriller, Nesting keeps the reader guessing until the end. It is rare and refreshing to read a satisfyingly suspenseful novel that exists in such a domestic sphere.

Washington Post
O'Donnell's thoughtful portrayal of a bad relationship illustrates how difficult it is for women to break free from a cycle of abuse.

Kirkus Reviews (starred review)
A propulsive, nuanced, achingly real novel that will appeal to both Colleen Hoover fans and devotees of Irish fiction.

Publishers Weekly (starred review)
Irish writer O'Donnell debuts with a wrenching and scrupulously realistic narrative... Ultimately hopeful, the narrative steers away from melodrama, offering instead a close examination of Ciara's daily struggles and hard-won triumphs, all of which are depicted in crystalline and lyrical prose. It's an unforgettable portrait of an all-too-common dilemma.

Author Blurb Chelsea Bieker, author of Madwoman and Godshot
Nesting is a perfect portrayal of the insidious nature of intimate partner abuse where the bruises are not physical, but violently emotional. I fell in love with the voice of Ciara as she sets out to create a new life against all odds for herself and her children. A story of bravery, love, and redemption, chock full of emotional suspense—I couldn't look away. A high-wire act of a debut.

Author Blurb Elaine Feeney, Booker-longlisted author of How to Build a Boat
Nesting is a haunting, deeply affecting debut novel—a gripping and unflinching exploration of coercive partner control, societal inequality, motherhood and the terrifying reality of a world closing in fast when you have no options left. An incredibly compelling tale of survival. It is as emotionally charged as it is brutally real, the writing is flawless. I was profoundly moved.

Author Blurb Mary Beth Keane, New York Times bestselling author of Ask Again, Yes and The Half Moon
What an extraordinary debut! I clutched this book tightly as I read, and rooted for Ciara from page one. Nesting is an unputdownable story of love, courage, and survival. I look forward to whatever comes next for Roisín O'Donnell.

Reader Reviews

Maureen C

Emotional Read
This is a heartfelt story of a young woman trying to make a better life for her children. Ciara Fay is dealing with emotional and verbal abuse very day of her life. She has finally had it. Her home is not a safe place for her two young daughters. ...   Read More
Shonaigh

Beautiful Writing
A beautiful read, I loved this book. I was fortunate enough to read it via NetGalley and highly recommend it. Lyrically written, it follows a young family in a time of crisis and unrest. Mother, Ciara is fleeing a controlling marriage which has ...   Read More

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The Signs and Effects of Emotional Abuse

A closeup of a crying woman's face Ciara Fay, the protagonist of Roisín O'Donnell's novel, Nesting, is the victim of emotional abuse, although she remains unaware of this for most of the book. Also referred to as psychological abuse or psychological aggression, this behavior erodes another person's sense of self-worth until they develop a psychological dependency on their abuser. Although emotional abuse can be as damaging as physical abuse, it can be hard to detect, particularly if a person grew up in an emotionally abusive environment. Since it leaves no outward marks on the victim, those afflicted often can't prove they've been abused even if they gather the strength to leave the relationship; without proof, it comes down to one person's word against another's.

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