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Melissa S. (Rowland, NC)
Family Lore, Love, & Healing
"The Heart-Shaped Tin" by Bee Wilson proves to be an interesting read that is not what I expected from the given synopsis. While Wilson does offer moving stories of how everyday kitchen objects (even some labeled "junk") evoke strong emotional attachments to people and places of the past, I found that much of the novel centers on her healing after an unexpected dissolution of her first marriage. She spends a great deal of time detailing objects that tie to her ex-husband and the life they once shared, or how, in learning to navigate life without her "soulmate," she attaches meaning to objects they either used or he left behind. While I found her stories of love, loss, and healing touching, I also sought stories that focused on others and their quirky attachments to kitchen utensils, tools, and other objects.
The book is very well written. Bee has a conversational style that flows easily, and her organizational skills make the subject matter easy to follow and enjoyable to read. I especially like the way she organizes the "chapters" by the types of kitchen artifacts people are attached to – charms, mementos, gifts, tools, etc.
I especially like the bits of history she provides for certain "older" or obscure kitchen tools. I found the little bit of extra information added depth to the stories. The illustrations she includes for a few of the lesser-known kitchen objects are helpful as well and solidify those stories.
In conclusion, "The Heart-Shaped Tin" is a well-written book full of special stories that touch the reader and make him/her look at ordinary objects with new warmth and a possible love. I definitely recommend this read if you love short stories centered on emotional attachment. The subject of kitchen objects evokes memories of ones own family traditions and lost loved ones.
Lynne_Zolli
Possessions and Memories
The Heart-shaped Tin is a series of essays about the history of everyday kitchen objects and their relevance and importance in people's lives. The carefully researched historical and cultural perspectives are interwoven with the author's personal experiences, especially the incredible loss she feels when her husband of almost 25 years leaves her for another woman. The stories are generally compelling, heart-warming, sometimes heartbreaking, and often very informative. Bee Wilson cleverly ties the individual stories together by beginning and ending with the heart-shaped tin.
Although it was an overall enjoyable read, it needed some editing. A few of the stories could have been left out to tighten up the narrative (e.g., The Melon Baller, The Queen's Sieve, The Elephant Plate and The Cream-coloured AGA). The stronger stories were a balanced combination of historical information and personal experiences. The seven sub-categories (Charms, Mementos, etc.) seemed contrived and unnecessary. Lastly, when The Oil Dispenser changed the narration from addressing the general audience and directed it to an individual reader, it was distracting and broke the flow of the book.
This is a book that has great appeal for a wide audience of readers. Each essay will connect with readers in their own way, based on individual life experiences. The Heart-shaped Tin will undoubtedly invoke memories. Most likely, it will change how one looks at kitchen objects and possessions in general.
Marion_Mueller
Things of the Kitchen
The Heart-Shaped Tin : Love, Loss, & Kitchen Objects. Bee Wilson. W.W. Norton & Company, 2025, 312 pp.
British food writer and home cook, Bee Wilson, has dished up a rich serving of food history, personal and family memories, interviews with fellow foodies, and descriptions of old and new kitchen objects. Intertwined, the reader gets a dose of philosophy, sociology, psychology, economics, and British and food culture. The "story" begins when Wilson's "heart-shaped tin" falls at her feet about the time her husband announces he is leaving the marriage. The tin became a sign and symbol for her around which she wove the first story and referred back to throughout. Other intriguing kitchen objects fall into categories of charms (chocolate bottles), mementos (egg beaters), junk (salt shakers), tools (pressure cookers), symbols (mushroom canisters), gifts (burial plates), and treasure (corkscrews). While reading, this reviewer found herself thinking about similar objects she has had and what stories she could tell about usual and unusual kitchen objects like three electric coffee pots, copper mugs, and wooden salad bowls. Read the book slowly; think about your cooking, your kitchen objects, and the friends you have fed. You don't need to be a foodie to appreciate the beauty of language and objects.
Susan D. (Wilmington, NC)
The Heart-Shaped Tin
This is a sweet, introspective book by Bee Wilson about everyday items and their impacts on our lives. She has been divorced and has watched her mother's slow decline through dementia. Certain objects have become particularly dear to her as she remembers them in her mother's hands. The heart-shaped tin from the title is the actual cake pan used for her wedding. It dropped suddenly from a shelf one day, landed at her feet, and provided the inspiration for the book.
In addition to describing her own attachments to beloved kitchen items, Wilson shares several stories of people from other cultures and the significance of treasured objects in their lives. There were times when I was afraid that the book would descend into dark troughs of grief and sentimentality, but Wilson managed to keep the stories light-hearted. As I read, I found myself considering some of the kitchen items and china sets that I own. I'm pretty practical, and know that my four adult daughters will likely not be thrilled to add these to their cabinets. But I hope they'll each take something to remember all the times we cooked and baked together.
Terrie J. (Eagan, MN)
Interesting Kitchen Memories
This was a well written accumulation of favorite kitchen memories, tools and cooking history. It was full of interesting small chapters. Some stories captured your heart. Some stories were ones that you also experienced. Some stories were about facts that I didn't know existed. I love cooking and gathering in the kitchen, so I enjoyed the different aspects. This book is one that is easy to pick up and put down. You can read it in a few days or allow it to span a few months because the stories don't relate to each other. The stories do share the common bond of kitchen or cooking memories. It does allow to appreciate your ties to kitchen items that you can't quite part with. I recommend this book for adult readers because they will be able to appreciate the experiences having lived them. It was an interesting compilation
Ilene_M
Not to my liking
I read about half of this book and could not go any further. I found the subject to be uninteresting, in fact, banal. The author dwelled upon the breakup of her marriage and deaths of loved one more than I cared to read about!
Shabella_G
Touching Book
I laughed, cried, laughed and cried a lot more. This really hit home. I am dealing with the same thing the author was. I now see things differently.
Marianne L. (Syosset, NY)
The Grace in Ordinary Kitchen Objects
The Heart-Shaped Tin by Bee Wilson
An emotional and deeply researched journey exploring the preciousness of tools and objects used in the kitchen and their enduring value. I enjoyed the history of some objects and their varying uses. Additionally, I was impressed at how the author drew out the truth of how common kitchen objects become laden with associations to specific family members, life events or even certain recipes. I do think couching this work within the framework of losses in her life detracted from the book, feeling burdensome at times. For me, framing the book within a celebration of ordinary life and its objects would make the book more appealing.