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We Are Not Like Them by Christine Pride, Jo Piazza

We Are Not Like Them

A Novel

by Christine Pride, Jo Piazza
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  • Oct 5, 2021, 336 pages
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  • Aug 2022, 336 pages
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Tony Conty

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"We Are Not Like Them" by Christine Pride and Jo Piazza has an explosive premise that will make it the water cooler book that "The Hate You Give" was. Two life-long best friends (one black and one white and, yes, their race matters) faced a crossroads when the white one's husband shot an unarmed black kid in the line of duty. Emotion is high at the story's beginning, and your mind wanders to how the characters feel instead of what is happening.

Jenny, the cop's wife, has a single-minded focus with a baby on the way. Riley, the reporter, is responsible for the truth and her race. As a local sports writer stated, both sides may be opposed but acting perfectly rationally. Kevin, the police officer, has an element of guilt that would raise a reaction out of the ardent "Blue Lives Matter" and "Black Lives Matter" communities.

You should read this book either way if you believe you have a "side" in this debate. As a relatively liberal white male, I had a good idea about the argument for the innocent kid. However, promoting empathy for the police officer and his family takes more skill. I could not stop thinking about both of the protagonists and their lives. Imagine being pregnant while all of this went down when you had nothing to do with it.

Above all, this is a novel about friendship. We establish bonds over the years and feel that nothing can break them until an unspeakable tragedy puts that to the test. Where does your loyalty lie when it conflicts with another relationship? Riley and Jen's interactions inspire you. Even though logic tells you their friendship cannot survive this controversy, you root for them and enjoy seeing the smallest act of kindness.

I think the ending will frustrate some people and cause some water cooler conversations that do not end well. The more you read, the less you can imagine a perfect solution. I expect some polarization. One should not go into this with the feeling that you want the book to echo their sentiments and exactly how you want it to go down. Jen and Riley are mature enough to know of no easy answers, and the reader may need the same grace.
Anna

Something to think about.
I have been thinking about this book for days after finishing it. The two women, one white and one black have been friends from an early age. Their friendship in adulthood is stretched to the limit. My takeaway from the book is we do not know what another person's life is like, even when we think we know them so well.
Labmom55

Didn’t live up to its potential
3.5 stars, rounded down

I was so excited to read We Are Not Like Them and had hoped my book club would pick it to discuss. I loved the premise - two best friends, one black and one white, are on opposite sides of two cops shooting an unarmed black youth. Jen, the white woman, happens to be the wife of one of the cops. Riley, the black woman, is a news anchor of a local tv channel. My book club opted not to pick it, but I’m glad I took the time to read it, despite the fact that the book didn’t quite reach its potential.

The book flips back and forth between each woman’s POV. The book is not afraid to tackle the serious issues - unconscious bias, systemic prejudice, popular opinion, family vs. friends. And I will admit to highlighting numerous points. But it often felt like I was being told, not shown. As you would expect, the book is heavily weighted towards Riley. But I wanted to hear more from Jen, other than the emphasis on her pregnancy. It bothered me that she was such a milquetoast when it came to dealing with Kevin’s family.

The authors share an interview at the very end of the book (after the discussion questions) which is very worthwhile. Don’t miss it. They say that “it was important to us that each character earned and deserved both sympathy and frustration in equal measures.” They almost succeed in that regard. Where they did succeed was that I truly was rooting for the friendship to survive.

The book would make a great book club discussion and I give it points for bringing so many important points to the table. I just wish it could have also been a better story.
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