Book Club Discussion Questions
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Please be aware that this discussion guide will contain spoilers!
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When the novel opens, the Blue sisters are all living different lives in disparate cities. How does the loss of Nicky impact each of the sisters differently?
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Discuss the line: "A sister is not a friend." What do you think the author means by that? Do you have siblings? If so, would you consider your sibling a friend?
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Discuss the role of addiction in the book. How does it shape the sisters' choices and actions? Have you ever struggled with addiction or been close to someone who has?
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How does the author depict grief and the process of healing in the story? Which sister's journey resonated with you the most?
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What do you think the New York City apartment meant to each sister? What do you think it symbolized for Nicky?
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Each Blue sister has their own romantic encounters and frustrations. Whose romantic story line did you find the most frustrating, and which did you find the most satisfying?
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When the sisters reunite, they realize that they had very different understandings of Nicky. What were you the most surprised to learn about Nicky and why?
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The Blue sisters have a complicated relationship with their parents, and their mother plays a small but pivotal role in the novel. How do the sisters' parental relationships affect their own feelings about motherhood?
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Discuss the ending of the book. Were you satisfied with how the sisters' stories were resolved? What were you hoping for each sister?
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Which sister did you identify with the most? Explain why.
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