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Making an Exit by Sarah Murray

Making an Exit

From the Magnificent to the Macabre - How We Dignify the Dead

by Sarah Murray

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  • Oct 2011, 288 pages
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With the surprising humor of Mary Roach's Stiff and the globe-spanning bravado of Anthony Bourdain's No Reservations, this is a journey into the astonishingly diverse ways in which we send off our dead.

Journalist Sarah Murray never gave much thought to what might ultimately happen to her remains - until her father died. Now, puzzled by the choices he made about the disposal of his "organic matter," she embarks on a series of voyages to discover how death is commemorated in different cultures.

Along the way Murray encounters a royal cremation in Bali, Mexico's Dia de los Muertos, a Czech chandelier made from human bones, a weeping ceremony in Iran, and a Philippine village where the casketed dead are left hanging in caves. She even goes to Ghana to commission a coffin for herself.

Her accounts of these journeys are fascinating, poignant, and funny. But this is a very personal quest - on her travels, Murray is also seeking inspiration for her own send off.

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"Starred Review. In less capable hands the subject matter might be morbid or disturbing, but with Murray at the helm, this journey in search of death is full of life." - Publishers Weekly

"The global riot of activity and information always yields thematically to a quiet return to the contrast with the old graveyard in the Dorset countryside - and the recognition that perhaps to have one's final wishes respected might just be enough for anyone." - Kirkus Reviews

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Sarah Murray

Sarah Murray is author of Moveable Feasts: From Ancient Rome to the 21st Century, the Incredible Journeys of the Food We Eat. A longtime Financial Times contributor, she lives in New York City.

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