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Mennonite in a Little Black Dress Summary and Reviews

Mennonite in a Little Black Dress

A Memoir of Going Home

by Rhoda Janzen

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Mennonite in a Little Black Dress by Rhoda Janzen
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  • Published Oct 2009
    256 pages
    Genre: Biography/Memoir

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Not long after Rhoda Janzen turned forty, her world turned upside down. It was bad enough that her brilliant husband of fifteen years left her for Bob, a guy he met on Gay.com, but that same week a car accident left her with serious injuries. What was a gal to do? Rhoda packed her bags and went home. This wasn't just any home, though. This was a Mennonite home. While Rhoda had long ventured out on her own spiritual path, the conservative community welcomed her back with open arms and offbeat advice. (Rhoda's good-natured mother suggested she date her first cousin—he owned a tractor, see.) It is in this safe place that Rhoda can come to terms with her failed marriage; her desire, as a young woman, to leave her sheltered world behind; and the choices that both freed and entrapped her.

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"Glib humor runs from start to finish through this memoir serving to further undermine a story structure already confusing and jumbled, leaving us to wonder - and your point is?" - BJ Hegedus

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"Starred Review. Women will immediately warm to the self-deprecating honesty with which she describes the efforts of friends and family to help her re-establish her emotional well-being." - Publishers Weekly

"This soulful, affecting first memoir...will enchant anyone who has ever gone back home after suffering a setback." - Library Journal

"This book is not just beautiful and intelligent, but also painfully - even wincingly - funny. It is rare that I literally laugh out loud while I'm reading, but Rhoda Janzen's voice - singular, deadpan, sharp-witted and honest - slayed me, with audible results. I have a list already of about fourteen friends who need to read this book. I will insist that they read it. Because simply put, this the most delightful memoir I've read in ages." - Elizabeth Gilbert, author of Eat, Pray, Love

"Dad's many charms include a maddening passivity and a penchant for public prayer at Denny's. But it was mom's lark-in-springtime personality that had me in hysterics. Peppered with Menno recipes, Janzen's memoir is a tasty treat." - Linda Bubon, Publishers Weekly Galley Talk

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Cloggie Downunder

very funny
Mennonite in a Little Black Dress is a memoir by Rhoda Janzen. Daughter of the head of the Mennonite church in North America (the Mennonite equivalent of the Pope), Janzen rejected her family’s faith at eighteen to go to college and teach. At forty-four, after a turbulent marriage that ended with her husband leaving her for a man he met on Gay.com, and having survived a serious car accident, Rhoda goes home to her parents’ welcoming arms and quirky lifestyle. She finds her return therapeutic and soothing. Janzen manages to fill this memoir with hilarious anecdotes whilst painting her family as loving and supportive. It is gratifying to learn that the phenomenon of Catholic guilt is not the exclusive domain of victims of the Roman Catholic Church. Very funny.

SAM

This LBD Isn't Your Basic, Ubiquitous LBD
The humor seems effortless, but that's just not possible - it's too universal. The voice with which Rhoda Janzen writes could belong to anyone, not only a Mennonite. I kept 'hearing' Jews, Italians, southerners, and any number of other groups who have intact cultural identities. It was, at times, uncanny, and it was charming.

This book has been described as a 'coming of age tale,' but that isn't really the way I saw it. Coming of age more typically refers to a first step that encompasses some brilliant and newly revealed truth. This book was something more than that - it was more like 'coming to terms with coming of age.'

The humor was dead on - just self-deprecating enough and with wry, witty observations about the supporting characters as well as the author. And, the characters were just about perfect, too. At some point most of us realize, and come to appreciate, the relative wisdom of our parents, and the author brings this out brilliantly. She moves her mother from a role in her father's shadow to a quiet, but central and wise figure in the family. Her father morphs from an authoritarian figure to a completely human one. The same growth can be seem in the other characters that live in this book. Even the repeated references to the ex-husband and Gay.com are spot on.

Read it to enjoy something and just take it easy for a minute.

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Rhoda Janzen

Rhoda Janzen holds a PhD from the University of California, Los Angeles, where she was the University of California Poet Laureate in 1994 and 1997. She is the author of Babel's Stair, a collection of poems, and her poems have also appeared in Poetry, The Yale Review, The Gettysburg Review, and The Southern Review. She teaches English and creative writing at Hope College in Holland, Michigan.

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