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The Obsessed by Lizzie Buehler

The Obsessed

by Lizzie Buehler

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  • Jul 28, 2026, 304 pages
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An endearingly riotous coming-of-age debut from an award-winning translator, about a young woman who maps the love plot of her favorite novel onto her life and finds herself flailing when she gets into a relationship with a fellow literary obsessive.

Astrid is obsessed with the Russian American novelist Sofiya Sova, whose life trajectory serendipitously parallels Astrid's own and whose writing seems to encompass every anxiety that Astrid has ever had. In hopes of gaining the purpose she so desperately craves, she begins her PhD with the resolve to live off the ethos of Sofiya Sova's novel.

But when her boyfriend, Charlie, breaks up with her and she meets a fellow Sofiya Sova obsessive named Elijah, Astrid finds herself transcribing the love plot of her favorite novel onto her own life ... until Elijah begins to pull away and Astrid is left flailing in a life scaffolded by obsession.

A bighearted portrait of the anxieties of desire, The Obsessed explores the trials of modern dating, the strange ennui of academia, and the question of how to create a world for yourself within and without the confines of your influences. What we're left with is a striking portrayal of how a willing reader can bring a text to life, and similarly the animating power of a good novel.

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"Buehler [captures] the nervous disillusionment that seems to always hover just an arm's length away [and] the fraught loneliness and unmooring of the self in the curated digital age." —Booklist (starred review)

"A thought-provoking [meditation] on romantic love, one-sided relationships, and academia ... Buehler offers intriguing insights into the many ways parasocial relationships take shape—not only with celebrities, but also strangers, fictional characters, and even idealized lovers. Fans of Elif Batuman's The Idiot will find much of interest." —Publishers Weekly

"Between the sexually repressed graduate students struggling to emote and the immortalization of some truly excellent memes, The Obsessed was an enthralling, irreverent read. I will be carrying our narrator's ache that her friends 'didn't know what it meant to love a book, a writer, or a stranger as much as I did' for a long time, maybe forever. What a relief and horror to learn there are more of us out there projecting our literary obsessions onto real people than you'd think." —Ruth Madievsky, bestselling author of All-Night Pharmacy

"A sharp-witted and offbeat tale of obsession. I felt seen, mocked, and entirely transfixed. With an endearingly neurotic heroine who treats linguistic quirks and cosmic coincidences like holy relics, Buehler explores our frantic attempt to use shared sensibilities as a shortcut to the terrifying pinnacle of being known. It is a brilliant reminder that our obsessions are less about the fixation itself and more about our own secret, unmapped desires... . The perfect read for anyone who finds it easier to understand a book than a person." —Caitlin Barasch, author of A Novel Obsession

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Janine_S

The price of obsession
A “lightweight” coming-of-age story about relationships and obsession.

Astrid Duffy is pursuing a PhD in Russian literature at Harvard obsessed by the Russian writer, Sofiya Sova, whose life seems “to parallel” Astrid’s and whose writing seems to”to encompass every anxious thought” of Astrid’s. Astrid’s sole desire is to “embody the ethos” of Sofiya’s novel. Astrid has long believed that parallels between the Russian novelist and herself gave some deep intrinsic meaning for her. When her boyfriend, Charlie, breaks up with her, Astrid is thrown into a panic as her love life was supposed to be following Sofiya’s. Astrid, however, finds Elijah, a Sofiya Sova obsessor himself, and feels likes back on track until that relationship crumbles. Where is she going?

The book posits that relationships have to be grounded on two sides - that is, parasocial relationships offer little in terms of emotional reciprocity and connection to the individual seeking to be loved. Astrid’s obsession is one-sided - even her relationships with Charlie and Elijah because they fulfill Sofiya’s book. I think this was the best part of the story; that is, obsession gains nothing for the obsessor.

I was a bit underwhelmed in the read. As noted above, writing about one-sided relationships was a great theme. I just felt Astrid could have been developed more and the story be a little deeper. But the writing is very good.

My thanks to NetGalley and G. P. Putnam’s Sons for allowing me access to this ARC.

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Lizzie Buehler

Lizzie Buehler is the translator of The Disaster Tourist (winner of the CWA Dagger for crime fiction in translation), Art on Fire, and Table for One by Yun Ko-eun, and Korean Teachers by Seo Su-jin. She holds an MFA in literary translation from the University of Iowa and has studied comparative literature at Harvard and Princeton. The Obsessed is her debut novel.

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