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My Person by Téa Mutonji

My Person

by Téa Mutonji

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  • Aug 11, 2026, 288 pages
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A bold debut from an exhilarating, multi-award-winning young writer, following two lifelong friends who suddenly find themselves in an emotional deadlock when one abruptly proposes to break up after years of subtle betrayals.

Best friends of over twenty years, Tania and Margot are preparing to host their monthly Sunday Loaf dinner party, when Tania tells Margot this isn't working for her anymore—they've been entangled for too long, she wants to "unknow" her. But how do you extricate yourself from someone whose family owns the apartment you live in, who has taken you in as their own, even claims you as their "person"?

As Tania attempts to live her life loudly on the outskirts of Margot's bubble, Margot's past betrayals become increasingly clear. But she means well, doesn't she? They had felt like sisters from the start. Or had Tania just been blind to Margot's antics? Set in the framework of a tense will-they-won't-they break-up, Tania and Margot get entangled in a rigorous revision of history, their once delicate dance intensifying toward a frantic finale that neither person sees coming.

A taut, piercing exploration of race and privilege, codependency, and the ways in which world-defining friendships can be both beautifully and excruciatingly life altering, My Person is an addicting, astutely observed novel from an astonishing new talent.

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"Thank god for Téa Mutonji. Her new novel, My Person, covers the tricky territory of two lifelong friends extricating themselves from each other's lives. It sounds sad, and it is, but it's also sexy, infuriating, and unbelievably fun to read. You can tell you're in the hands of a poet; the writing crackles on the page. This is a writer who can read someone to filth in just one line. If you've ever known the pain of a friend breakup, this one's for you. Téa Mutonji has managed to take some of the ugliest thoughts and worst moments and turn it into a sparkling novel about reclaiming your sense of self." —Katie Yee, author of Maggie; or, A Man and a Woman Walk Into a Bar

"This is a sharp and sexy book, full of indelible moments when the truth gushes out and what's said cannot be unsaid. An unflinching, heartbreaking examination of all that comes with loving, and losing, a best friend. A fabulous debut—deeply enjoyable." —Jean Chen Ho, author of Fiona and Jane

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Exploration of friendship
3.5 stars. A fictional exploration of the complexities of female friendships and how class differences can affect this.

I’m glad the author put her note at the beginning of this book otherwise I might not have finished this book the way Chapter One began. The second sentence reads “I had decided to end our friendship earlier . . . .” Margot and Tania have been friends since childhood and roommates during their twenties living in an apartment subsidized by Margot’s parents, which Tania was invited to live in by Margot. The curiosity of that sentence lies in the word “friendship”. Why does that have to end? The reader becomes aware the Margot’s goals are changing now that she’s nearing thirty and would like to live with her boyfriend and start a family which probably would have result in Tania having to move out, but the nixing of the friendship would cause that anyway.

As the story plays out we learn how the friendship began, its ups and downs. The two women, friends since childhood, are diametrically different. Tania comes from a working class Congolese family, is estranged from her parents but is an accomplished writer. Margot is white, liberal and privileged and has been indulged all her life but now yearns for the traditional family. When Margot’s cousin, Eli, enters the picture and begins dating Tania (even though he’s engaged), she realizes she’s been proving emotional labor to Margot’s family for their kindnesses. Then Tania agrees to go with Margot to see her therapist together and what emerges is very engrossing - and saved the book for me.

Friendship is complicated and as in marriage, there can be a breakup. I can understand friends like lovers growing a part, we evolve, we change. As we move on to new jobs or relationships, the old ones are often left behind. In making these life choice changes, it’s often bittersweet. And as this story takes its trajectory of a friendship ending, it is told with a deep poignancy. Tania’s return to her family was perhaps the best part of the book for me. But I still go back to why use the word friendship rather than something like “it’s time for me to move out.” The blurbs all state something like this is a “bold” debut and I get that with the second sentence for the book.

Well enough of my concern with the book’s premise. I enjoyed it. The author is a fine writer and the story resonates with good pacing and tough realities.

I’d like to thank NetGalley and G.P. Putnam & Sons for granting me access to this ARC.

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Téa Mutonji is a poet and fiction writer. Her debut collection of short stories, Shut Up You're Pretty was a finalist for the Atwood Gibson Writers' Trust Fiction Prize (2019) and Canada Reads (2024). It won the Edmund White Debut Fiction Award (2020) and the Trillium Book Award (2020). Mutonji was a recipient of the Writer's Trust Rising Star's award (2022) and received the Jill Davis Fellowship (2021) at New York University where she completed her MFA in fiction.

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