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Cleo Dang Would Rather Be Dead by Mai Nguyen

Cleo Dang Would Rather Be Dead

A Novel

by Mai Nguyen

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  • Apr 2026, 272 pages
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A darkly humorous yet uplifting novel about a grieving mother who starts working at a funeral home and discovers that the best way to honor the dead is to live—from the author of the "insightful, moving" (Taylor Jenkins Reid, New York Times bestselling author) Sunshine Nails.

All Cleo Dang has ever wanted is to be a mother. The day she discovers she's pregnant is the happiest of her life, especially when she learns that her best friend, Paloma, is also expecting. It's a wonderful surprise, and together, they enjoy their pregnancies. But when they both go to the hospital in labor, something goes very, very wrong. Paloma comes home with a baby. Cleo does not.

Ravaged by grief, Cleo must now navigate life after losing her baby. She alienates herself from the world, particularly her best friend, who is living the life she so desperately wanted. Forced to take leave from her demanding job as an actuary, Cleo manages to find work at a funeral home, where she meets a revolving cast of bereaved locals and discovers the power of confronting grief.

Darkly humorous yet uplifting, Cleo Dang Would Rather Be Dead follows a grieving mother who starts working at a funeral home and discovers that the best way to honor the dead is to live.

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"Nguyen is brilliant in her depiction of the agony of grief as well as its absurdity and surprising capacity for tender connection. An astonishing portrait of grief and an ode to the beauty that manages to live in its midst." —Kirkus Reviews (starred review)

"Nguyen writes with raw, unflinching honesty about the agony of losing a child, balancing pathos with dark humor. Cleo's messy, nonlinear, yet ultimately hopeful story of rebuilding proves that while some wounds may never heal, they can be transformed into something unexpectedly profound." —Booklist (starred review)

"Mai Nguyen's morbidly funny sophomore novel, Cleo Dang Would Rather Be Dead, explores the raw depths of grief as the title character flounders after her infant daughter's death. Touching and insightful, Nguyen's novel is a moving depiction of motherhood and an honest portrait of grief in its multilayered complexity." —Shelf Awareness

"It's rare to read a book knowing that it will stay with you long after it's finished like this. It had me wiping away tears and laughing within the same page. Mai Nguyen writes about grief with humour, deep insight, and incredible honesty. It's a beautiful story of a mother's love, sorrow, joy, and human connection." —Natalie Sue, bestselling author of I Hope This Finds You Well

"Deeply emotional and unexpectedly funny. Nguyen masterfully balances heartbreaking vulnerability with wit and hopefulness. A truly beautiful novel and window into a mom's profound love for her baby." —Emily Austin, bestselling author of We Could Be Rats

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Grief is personal
A beautifully poignant novel exploring grief, loss and motherhood. This is a book that stays with you after you close it. Cleo Dang and best friend, Paloma, are having babies on the same day. Paloma goes home with her son, Jude, while Cleo goes home to bury her daughter, Daisy. Cleo's grief seems insurmountable; her biggest goal was to be a mother. Finding her actuarial job a bit overwhelming (I think those malicious comments she heard from coworkers were awful to experience - but I also think it was powerful to include them to show that other people's expectations of how one shows grief are totally whacked! Made me mad to read them!), Cleo leaves and finds another in the funeral home from which her daughter was buried.

Cleo's recovery begins in a place one would not expect to find it. But in helping others, Cleo allows her compassion be more important than her grief. She also learns to share her feelings more especially with Ethan to whom it appears to Cleo that he isn't grieving. The wonderful discussion between the two of them near the end of the book was cathartic to read. Grief is personal and unexplainable to others.

This is a book that might help others like Cleo. Never having had to experience a loss like hers it's hard to relate except to know that I was so fortunate to see my children grow up. That's why the ending is the best. Hope is eternal.

I'd like to thank NetGalley and Atria Books for allowing me to read this ARC.

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Mai Nguyen

Mai Nguyen is a Vietnamese Canadian author whose debut novel, Sunshine Nails, was longlisted for Canada Reads and named one of the best books of 2023 by NPR and CBC. Her journalism has appeared in Wired, The Washington Post, and The Toronto Star. Raised in Halifax, she now lives in Toronto with her husband, daughter, and French bulldog.

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