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Ms. Mebel Goes Back to the Chopping Block by Jesse Q Sutanto

Ms. Mebel Goes Back to the Chopping Block

by Jesse Q Sutanto

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  • Apr 2026, 304 pages
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A nearly divorced trophy wife enrolls in culinary school to win back her husband, only to find a fresh start in the unlikeliest of places in this new novel from the USA Today bestselling author of Vera Wong's Unsolicited Advice for Murderers.

Retirement should mean long-awaited trips to the sapphire waters of Santorini or careening down a sand dune in Dubai. For sixty-three-year-old Mebel, retirement means her husband of more than forty years announcing that he's leaving her for their private chef. Mebel isn't sure who's the bigger loss.

Not to worry, Mebel has the perfect plan: she's going to win back her husband. No one knows what he needs better than her—after all, she's been anticipating his needs their whole marriage. And if he wants a wife who can cook (why else would he leave her for a chef?), she will simply go to cooking school. And where better to learn to cook for your husband than France, the most romantic country in the world?

However, Mebel quickly learns that she has mistakenly enrolled in a culinary school not in glamorous Paris but rather in England—and in some small village outside of Oxford no less. Despite the less-than-warm welcome from her much younger classmates, Mebel manages to befriend Gemma, the breakout star of the program. And this unlikely friendship starts to show Mebel that maybe there's more to her than being the perfect trophy wife…

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  1. Ms. Mebel Goes Back to the Chopping Blockbegins, "All her life, Mabel Tanadi has always had a fear of – not so much death as much as situations that eventually lead to death." (p. 1). What did you think of this opening? What was your opinion of her list of anxieties? Do you ever have similar worries?
  2. Had you heard the term CHIP ("Chinese-Indonesian princess") before? What did you think of Mebel giving herself this label? Why do you think she's proud of being a CHIP at the book's start? Do you think she still considers herself a CHIP by the end of the book?
  3. Mebel ponders her relationship with Henk, feeling that she may have been overconfident in her assessment of her ...
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Jesse Q. Sutanto is the author of 16 other novels including the Vera Wong’s Unsolicited Advice for Murderers series and the Dial A for Aunties series. Have you read any of her other titles?
Yes. I LOVE the Vera Wong series and the Dial A for Aunties series. I need to go and get her other books.
-Catrina_A


To what audience would you recommend Ms. Mebel Goes Back to the Chopping Block? Is there another book or author you feel has a similar theme or style?
Jesse Q. Sutanto fans who have read her Vera Wong novels will certainly enjoy Ms. Mebel. She employs the same level of lightheartedness and humor in this latest book.
-Susan_W1


Overall, what did you think of Ms. Mebel Goes Back to the Chopping Block? (No spoilers in this topic, please.)
I'm not exactly sure how to rate this book overall. I almost gave up on it early on—I really didn't like Mebel for much of the first part. At the same time, I understood that I wasn't necessarily supposed to like her, so I kept reading to see how Jesse Q. Sutanto might redeem her character. In th...
-Marge_K


What are you reading this week? And what did you think of last week’s books? (4/23/2026)
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...d for discussion next week, https://www.bookbrowse.com/bb_briefs/detail/index.cfm/ezine_preview_number/23263/ms-mebel-goes-back-to-the-chopping-block Ms. Mebel Goes Back to the Chopping Block by Jesse Q Sutanto, a fun, quick read. Currently reading https://www.bookbrowse.com/bb_briefs/detail/index.cfm/ezine_preview_number/24694/john-of-john John of John by D...
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"Sutanto keeps the pages turning with tight plotting and thoroughly enjoyable characters. Readers are in for a treat." —Publishers Weekly

"Sutanto, who is behind the beloved Vera Wong mystery series, has created another unsinkable and unstintingly funny 60-something female character, and readers should derive much pleasure witnessing Mebel's transformation from castoff wife into Chinese Indonesian Golden Girl. Soufflé lightness, deliciously flavored with feminism." —Kirkus Reviews

"Sutanto's (Vera Wong's Guide to Snooping (on a Dead Man)) heartwarming, feel-good story of a formerly entitled woman who learns she has desires of her own and is more than arm candy is laced with humor and will appeal to readers who enjoy stories of women reinventing themselves." —Library Journal

"The lessons beyond the kitchen about trust friendship, autonomy, resilience, (a little) revenge, and most importantly, her true self prove that even 'at sixty- three, there is still so much more to life, so many more things to discover.' Let's hope Sutanto brings Mebel back soon." —Booklist

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Vivian_H

Delightful Coming of Age at 63
This book was absolutely delightful. I had the good fortune of receiving a paperback copy of Ms. Mebel Goes Back to the Chopping Block to discuss in the BookBrowse Community online book club.

From the first page when Mebel imagines that unlikely ways to die- like checking for sharks in a swimming pool. Mebel Tanadi, a Chinese Indonesian trophy wife of 40 years is blind sided when her husband Henk decides to leave her for the very young Wendy, their cook.

Since Mebel’s entire identity is wrapped up in her luxurious lifestyle, so I’ll live and collection of Hermes handbags, she decides to win back Henk by going to cooking school in Paris, near the Dior shop. Unwittingly, Mebel has actually registered at the sister school in a small town outside Oxford. Mebel’s trajectory and coming of age at a time when many of us retire is so much fun.

For fans of Kevin Kwan, this is a must read.

liana ana

ms. mebel
Actually, after reading the title of the book, I was curious about the story. After reading it, I felt a little confused and also really admired Ms. Mebel. How could a long marriage make her husband turn away? But I really like Ms. Mebel's character, she is trying to develop herself at a not so young age. For the sake of her husband who must return to her, she loves her husband so much. He doesn't give up, instead he wants to make himself even cooler, I really like that character. I recommended this book to one of my friends.

Elizabeth

Elizabeth Silver's Reviews - Do NOT miss this book - Loved Mebel
You are leaving me for our chef? She isn't even twenty-five.

That is what Mebel was dealing with at age sixty-three, but she will get through it.

Her son was going to help by moving in with her, but that wasn't enough.

Mebel knew what to do to make her husband realize he made a mistake. She would enroll in a cooking school and win him back.

Could she do it? She never cooked a meal in her life.

And…will she get her husband back or is she enjoying her life at the school with the young cooking students?

Then...the student who is paired with her for a cooking contest disappears. What happens now?

This is a very enjoyable read, and Mebel makes it so.

Don't miss this read - you will love Mebel, feel sorry for her, and be laughing out loud too. 5/5

Thank you to the publisher

Anna_Robinson

Unexpected
When I started this book, I thought it would be just fluff. Was I surprised! Trophy Wife Mebel found her voice. She discovered she could do more than run her husband's household, entertain his friends, and be the "perfect" wife. I was so proud of her when she didn't go back to her husband after the woman he left her for ditched him. I wanted to cheer. She discovered she was worth much more than being a "trophy" wife.

Catherine_S

Mabel's Journey
Such an entertaining read. Mebel learns her husband of 40 plus years is leaving her for their private chef. With her can-do attitude, and her general approach to life that says she can do anything that money can buy, she decides to learn to cook as well as the private chef, so that her husband will come back to her. This self-proclaimed "Chinese-Indonesian princess" is focused on only the finer things in life – Berkin bags, Louboutin shoes, Hermes suits – with little emotional attachment to family and friends. As the story unfolds, however, and she experiences numerous mishaps at the not-in-Paris cooking school in which she enrolls, and with individuals she meets along the way, she reinvents herself, developing into a sympathetic woman with emotional attachments and a better understanding of herself and her place in her new world. Mebel becomes the type of person the reader can admire. The description of her journey is fast-paced, colorful and engaging (and she learns to cook!).

Suzi_F

Uplifting and clever
I enjoyed this book more than I expected. This was a surprisingly refreshing look at later-in-life reinvention. It felt much deeper than the cover and the blurb suggested. I wondered at first Mebel might come off as a caricature of a bored housewife, but she shows depth and emotional growth. She went from focusing on how to get her husband back to figuring out what she really wants.

I appreciated the supporting cast too as they seemed like real people. And I enjoyed the cozy mystery too.

This was a nice palate-cleanser after reading some heavier, darker books.

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Jesse Q. Sutanto is the award-winning, USA Today bestselling author of the Aunties and Vera Wong series along with several stand-alone thrillers. She grew up shuttling back and forth between Indonesia, Singapore, and Oxford, and considers all three places her home. She has a master's degree from Oxford University and a bachelor's from the University of California, Berkeley. Jesse currently lives in Jakarta with her husband and two young daughters.

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