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How to Fail at Flirting by Denise Williams

How to Fail at Flirting

by Denise Williams

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  • Dec 2020, 352 pages
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One daring to-do list and a crash course in flirtation turn a Type A overachiever's world upside down.

When her flailing department lands on the university's chopping block, Professor Naya Turner's friends convince her to shed her frumpy cardigan for an evening on the town. For one night her focus will stray from her demanding job and she'll tackle a new kind of to-do list. When she meets a charming stranger in town on business, he presents the perfect opportunity to check off the items on her list. Let the guy buy her a drink. Check. Try something new. Check. A no-strings-attached hookup. Check…almost.

Jake makes her laugh and challenges Naya to rebuild her confidence, which was left toppled by her abusive ex-boyfriend. Soon she's flirting with the chance at a more serious romantic relationship—except nothing can be that easy. The complicated strings around her dating Jake might destroy her career.

Naya has two options. She can protect her professional reputation and return to her old life or she can flirt with the unknown and stay with the person who makes her feel like she's finally living again.

Please be aware that this discussion guide will contain spoilers!
  1. Naya begins the book feeling she's in a rut after closing herself off for so many years. Did Naya's list make you think of what you could add to your own to-do list?
  2. Naya shares with Jake that she's had lackluster sexual experiences with other men and has not felt comfortable asking for what she wanted. Do you think that's a common experience for women? Why?
  3. Jake goes with Naya on TILT and the Ferris wheel despite his fear of heights. Is there a fear you'd be willing to confront to be near someone?
  4. Naya finds it hard to disclose her past trauma to Jake. Why do you think this is, and what makes her ultimately feel she can trust him?
  5. As a professor, Naya discusses some of the challenges of her work. Do any parts ...
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"Naya and Jake's relationship is both sexy and sweet as these two people, who love their work but are not skilled at socializing or romance, find their way forward. Academia is vividly portrayed, and readers will await the next book from Williams, a talented debut author and a PhD herself." —Booklist

"In this steamy romance, Naya Turner is an overachieving math professor blowing off work stress with a night on the town, which leads to a night with a dapper stranger. And then another, and another. She's smitten by the time she realizes there's a professional complication, and the relationship could put her job at risk. Williams blends rom-com fun with more weighty topics in her winsome debut." —The Washington Post

"Denise Williams's How to Fail at Flirting is absolutely spectacular!! Ripe with serious, real-life drama, teeming with playful banter, rich with toe-curling passion, full of heart-melting romance….Her debut grabbed me on page one and held me enthralled until the end, when I promptly started re-reading to enjoy the deliciousness again." —Priscilla Oliveras, USA Today bestselling author

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Denise Williams

Denise Williams wrote her first book in the 2nd grade. I Hate You and its sequel, I Still Hate You, featured a tough, funny heroine, a quirky hero, witty banter, and a dragon. Minus the dragons, these are still the books she likes to write. After penning those early works, she finished second grade and eventually earned a PhD in education, going on to work in higher education. After growing up a military brat around the world and across the country, Denise now lives in Des Moines, Iowa with her husband, son, and two ornery shih-tzus who think they own the house.

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