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A Marriage at Sea by Sophie Elmhirst

A Marriage at Sea

A True Story of Love, Obsession, and Shipwreck

by Sophie Elmhirst

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  • Jul 2025, 256 pages
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The electrifying true story of a young couple shipwrecked at sea: a mind-blowing tale of obsession, survival, and partnership stretched to its limits.

Maurice and Maralyn make an odd couple. He's a loner, awkward and obsessive; she's charismatic and ambitious. But they share a horror of wasting their lives. And they dream – as we all dream – of running away from it all. What if they quit their jobs, sold their house, bought a boat, and sailed away?

Most of us begin and end with the daydream. But Maurice began to study nautical navigation. Maralyn made detailed lists of provisions. And in June 1972, they set sail. For nearly a year all went well, until deep in the Pacific, a breaching whale knocked a hole in their boat and it sank beneath the waves.

What ensues is a jaw-dropping fight to survive in the wild ocean, with little hope of rescue. Alone together for months in a tiny rubber raft, starving and exhausted, Maurice and Maralyn have to find not only ways to stay alive but ways to get along, as their inner demons emerge and their marriage is put to the greatest of tests. Although they could run away from the world, they can't run away from themselves.

Taut, propulsive, and dazzling, A Marriage at Sea pairs an adrenaline-fueled high seas adventure with a gutting love story that asks why we love difficult people, and who we become under the most extreme conditions imaginable.

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  1. Why did Maralyn and Maurice want to untether themselves from 1970s British society?
  2. Have you had a similar daydream of running away? What has stopped you from doing it?
  3. On the Auralyn, Maurice and Maralyn provided different types of labor, with Maurice handling navigation and Maralyn taking care of provisions and bookkeeping. After the ship sinks, how is the labor between the two of them renegotiated, and why?
  4. The acute stress of their situation unearths and intensifies parts of Maurice and Maralyn, good and bad—his self-sabotage, her fortitude. How does partnership operate to simultaneously reveal our innermost capabilities and exacerbate our greatest weaknesses?
  5. Do you relate more to Maurice's ...
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What are you reading this week? (7/24/2025)
...is fiction based on real events when 27 migrants drowned in the English Channel. It is only 120 pages of very interesting perspectives. Listening to A Marriage at Sea by Sophie Elmhirst. A true story of a couple who survived being lost at sea for over 100 days. Just started The Highest Law in the Land by Jessica Pishko about constitu...
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What are you reading this week? (7/17/2025)
I'm reading A Marriage at Sea by Sophie Elmhirst. Based on a true story, this novel depicts the story of a couple who buy a boat and decide to sail the world! A close encounter with a whale ends the...
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"A nimbly told story that should serve as a caution—but oddly, too, as inspiration—to would-be escapists." —Kirkus Reviews (starred review)

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A couple adrift at sea, can this marriage survive?
How many survival stories have you read that are about men? Think The Wager, The Wide, Wide Sea, and so many others. So what a pleasure to read a book about a true survival at sea where the woman is an equal partner (if not more) to her male partner.

This book is more than a story of survival; it's an intimate look at a marriage and how it grows and changes as the many obstacles of life in a survival raft (a whale has capsized their boat) affects the marriage of the Baileys. They are a British couple in the 1970s who cast away from their former life and put all their assets into a vision to live on a boat and sail the world. (It's a true story and is well-researched by the author).

They are a match of opposites- Maurice is meticulous, antisocial, and a pessimist. But his wife Marilyn sees the glass as half full, and she never doubts that they will survive.

Will they survive? And even if they do, will the marriage survive? I was glued to this book over about 3 days and could not wait for each step of their journey.

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Sophie Elmhirst

Sophie Elmhirst is an award-winning journalist who writes regularly for The Guardian Long Read and The Economist; her work has also appeared in The New York Times Magazine, The New Yorker, and Harper's Bazaar, among other places. She's the winner of the British Press Award for Feature Writer of the Year and a Foreign Press Award. She lives in London and A Marriage at Sea is her first book.

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