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The Making of Her by Bernadette Jiwa

The Making of Her

A Novel

by Bernadette Jiwa

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  • Aug 2022, 352 pages
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People were forever telling her how lucky she was. But what did people know?

Dublin 1966. When Joan Quinn, a factory girl from the Cranmore Estate, marries Martin Egan, it looks like her dreams have come true. But Joan lives in the shadow of a secret – the couple's decision to give up their first daughter for adoption only months before.

Then one day in 1996, a letter arrives from their eldest daughter. Emma needs her birth parents' help; it's a matter of life and death. And the fragile facade of Joan's life finally begins to crack.

Spanning the nineties and the sixties, with Dublin as its backdrop, The Making of Her is the tender and page-turning story of marriage, motherhood, a culture that would not allow a woman to find true happiness—and her journey to finally claim it.

Please be aware that this discussion guide will contain spoilers!
  1. Why do you think the novel is titled The Making of Her?
  2. The story is set in Dublin. In what ways do you think the city shaped the Egans' lives?
  3. What path do you think Joan's life would have taken if she hadn't received Emma's letter?
  4. How did you interpret Joan's decision to sleep with Martin before he goes to London?
  5. Did you empathize with Martin? And if so, when and why?
  6. At one point Martin asks Joan, "Why can't we leave the past where it belongs?" Why do you think he finds this so easy to do, and Joan finds it so hard?
  7. Discuss the role of men throughout the story.
  8. Were you surprised by Emma's decision at the airport towards the end of the novel?
  9. What did you make of Joan and Carmel's ...
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"Memorable insights are quotable and the ending is satisfyingly true to the ups and downs experienced by Joan's extended family. Fans of Maeve Binchey, Cathy Kelly, or Adriana Trigiani may find a new favorite author here." —Booklist (starred review)

"The Making of Her sucked me in from the very first page, and didn't let up until I'd turned the last. Heartwarming and heartbreaking, it is an exquisite examination of the secrets that haunt us. I cried several times. A stunning debut."  —Sally Hepworth, New York Times bestselling author of The Good Sister

"The Making of Her is a compelling and tender exploration of the unattainable expectations of women, the shame and guilt inherent in motherhood, and the reverberations of the hardest choices we make. Jiwa gives us a beautifully crafted, thought-provoking novel that ultimately celebrates the strength of women. A true pleasure to read." —Ashley Audrain, New York Times bestselling author of The Push

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Bernadette Jiwa

Bernadette Jiwa was born into a house with no books and a home full of stories, in Dublin, Ireland. She migrated to the UK in the 1980s, raised three sons with her husband, and now lives in Melbourne, Australia. She is the creator and leader of The Story Skills Workshop—a program that has taught thousands of people to harness the power of their everyday stories.

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