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How to Age Disgracefully by Clare Pooley

How to Age Disgracefully

A Novel

by Clare Pooley

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  • Jun 2024, 352 pages
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A senior citizens' center and a daycare collide with hilarious results in the new ensemble comedy from New York Times-bestselling author Clare Pooley.

When Lydia takes a job running the Senior Citizens' Social Club three afternoons a week, she assumes she'll be spending her time drinking tea and playing gentle games of cards.

The members of the Social Club, however, are not at all what Lydia was expecting. From Art, a failed actor turned kleptomaniac to Daphne, who has been hiding from her dark past for decades to Ruby, a Banksy-style knitter who gets revenge in yarn, these seniors look deceptively benign—but when age makes you invisible, secrets are so much easier to hide.

When the city council threatens to sell the doomed community center building, the members of the Social Club join forces with their tiny friends in the daycare next door—as well as the teenaged father of one of the toddlers and a geriatric dog—to save the building. Together, this group's unorthodox methods may actually work, as long as the police don't catch up with them first.

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  1. This story is told from the perspective of four main characters. Which did you like the most and why?
  2. The main characters in How to Age Disgracefully are a teenaged single father, a menopausal empty-nester, and two septuagenarians. Which of these stages of life do you think is the hardest to navigate?
  3. When age makes you invisible, secrets are easier to hide. Is this true? Can you think of any examples?
  4. Which of the characters in the novel do you think changes the most during the course of the story?
  5. Art and Daphne are both criminals. Are there mitigating circumstances? Can you forgive them?
  6. Ziggy also breaks the law—getting caught up in drug dealing. Why does he do this? Does he have any other choice...
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...o which I would recommend this book are older adults in search of a cozy mystery and readers who enjoyed The Thursday Murder Club by Richard Osman or How to Age Disgracefully by Clare Pooley.
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"A lovably quirky, reassuringly wise, and memorably inspiring romp that shatters ageist stereotypes." —Booklist (starred review)

"Rollicking...Pooley's clever and delightfully farcical scenes are laugh-out-loud funny, often thanks to the frank Daphne. This ought to satisfy Pooley's fans and win her new ones." —Publishers Weekly 

"With gangs, heists and stakeouts, this is not your ordinary novel about senior citizens. Prepare to be thoroughly entertained." —The Observer (UK)

"Clare Pooley weaves together the most cleverly flawed and lovable characters and then sets them free to prove that we are limitless at any age. How To Age Disgracefully is a love letter to the human spirit." —Annabel Monaghan, bestselling author of Nora Goes Off Script

"Funny, warm, wise, and a total riot...Clare Pooley is the best at marshalling a group of madly endearing characters, flicking her whip, and sending them careening off on a rollicking, entrancing, breakneck journey." —Beth Morrey, international bestselling author of Clover Hendry's Day Off

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Clare Pooley Author Biography

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Clare Pooley graduated from Cambridge University, and then spent twenty years in the heady world of advertising before becoming a full-time writer. Her debut novel, The Authenticity Project, was a New York Times bestseller, and has been translated into twenty-nine languages. Pooley lives in Fulham, London, with her husband, three children, and two border terriers. Iona Iverson's Rules for Commuting is her second novel.

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