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In My Time of Dying by Sebastian Junger

In My Time of Dying

How I Came Face to Face with the Idea of an Afterlife

by Sebastian Junger

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  • May 2024, 176 pages
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A near-fatal health emergency leads to this powerful reflection on death—and what might follow—by the bestselling author of Tribe and The Perfect Storm.

For years as an award-winning war reporter, Sebastian Junger traveled to many front lines and frequently put his life at risk. And yet the closest he ever came to death was the summer of 2020 while spending a quiet afternoon at the New England home he shared with his wife and two young children. Crippled by abdominal pain, Junger was rushed to the hospital by ambulance. Once there, he began slipping away. As blackness encroached, he was visited by his dead father, inviting Junger to join him. "It's okay," his father said. "There's nothing to be scared of. I'll take care of you." That was the last thing Junger remembered until he came to the next day when he was told he had suffered a ruptured aneurysm that he should not have survived.

This experience spurred Junger—a confirmed atheist raised by his physicist father to respect the empirical—to undertake a scientific, philosophical, and deeply personal examination of mortality and what happens after we die. How do we begin to process the brutal fact that any of us might perish unexpectedly on what begins as an ordinary day? How do we grapple with phenomena that science may be unable to explain? And what happens to a person, emotionally and spiritually, when forced to reckon with such existential questions?

In My Time of Dying is part medical drama, part searing autobiography, and part rational inquiry into the ultimate unknowable mystery.

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"A riveting and resonant meditation on some of life's biggest questions." —Publishers Weekly (starred review)

"Ardently researched, consummately written, and boldly forthright, this an intensely moving and deeply provocative immersion." —Booklist (starred review)

"Intelligent and poignantly probing." —Kirkus Reviews

"Let me start this way: I believe that Sebastian Junger is one of the finest writers of our generation. In My Time of Dying is a stunning book about life, about death, about the afterlife. These are subjects all of us should want to spend days, months, years thinking about. But we don't do that. Why? Probably because the subject overwhelms most of us. And maybe because the human condition scares the hell out of all of us. Well, Sebastian Junger has just done the hard work for us. In My Time of Dying examines the often subtle connections between life, death, and the after-life. Junger has clearly obsessed about his subject. The result is a powerful book that comes as close as anything I've read in explaining what it means to be human." —James Patterson

"Sebastian Junger is known for standing on the front lines in places that scare the hell out of the rest of us. Nowhere is that truer than in In My Time of Dying, where he turns inward to examine his own mortality, the most frightening—yet fascinating—frontier there is." —Caitlin Doughty, New York Times bestselling author of Smoke Gets In Your Eyes & Other Lessons from the Crematory

"Sebastian Junger, a virtuoso of narrative nonfiction, has conjured his most personal and yet universal book, a stunning account I didn't so much read as inhale, awed and riveted and forever changed." —Michael Finkel, New York Times bestselling author of The Art Thief

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Is There an Afterlife? An Atheist Has a Near-Death Experience and Tries to Explain Life's Greatest Mystery
Author Sebastian Junger is an adrenaline junkie. He is seemingly fearless, willingly seeking out and embracing danger. He surfed all by himself in the middle of winter off the coast of New England with no one else in sight. For some 10 years, he covered as a journalist the war in Afghanistan so he could write about the experience of infantry combat—up close and personal. He has traveled to treacherous places most people would never go.

Junger has courted death his whole life and laughed in its face. So at age 58 when he suffered a ruptured aneurysm in his pancreatic artery while he was at home in a deeply isolated area of Massachusetts, he was so close to dying he had a "near-death experience." Junger, an atheist who is the son of an atheist, had to rethink his lifelong beliefs about an afterlife.

It was June 2020 when this happened, and because of the COVID pandemic, Junger and his wife and two very young daughters, had previously escaped to their country house where the landline doesn't work if it rains too much and there is no reliable cell phone service. Just getting an ambulance was an act of heroism and fortitude on his wife's part. Then once the ambulance arrived, it was another hour to the hospital. Because the physicians at first couldn't isolate the source of his massive internal bleeding, most of the medical personnel thought he would die. And he almost did. He says he could feel himself slipping out of his body, and his long-dead father visited him, saying, "It's okay. You don't have to fight it. I'll take care of you. You can come with me."

This relatively short book has two chapters titled "What" and "If." In the first chapter, Junger intersperses the story of his medical trauma with the daring and risky adventures of his life. In the second chapter, he recounts prodigious research into near-death experiences as well as all the scientific evidence he can muster about an afterlife using only rational, cogent, and logical—never religious—arguments.

Is there an afterlife or is it just the brain biologically shutting down in a glorious way? That is the unanswerable question that Junger tackles with deep honesty, reverence, and good humor. And his conclusion—is there life after death?—is a stunning, breathtaking, and mind-bending supposition.

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Sebastian Junger Author Biography

Sebastian Junger is the New York Times bestselling author of Tribe, War, Freedom, A Death in Belmont, Fire, and The Perfect Storm, and codirector of the documentary film Restrepo, which was nominated for an Academy Award. He is also the winner of a Peabody Award and the National Magazine Award for Reporting.

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Sebastian Junger: Yuung-ger

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