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Strong Passions

A Scandalous Divorce in Old New York

by Barbara Weisberg

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Strong Passions by Barbara Weisberg
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  • Published Feb 2024
    256 pages
    Genre: Biography/Memoir

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Shocking revelations of a wife's adultery explode in an incendiary nineteenth-century trial, exposing upper-crust New York society and its secrets.

What could possibly go wrong in a wealthy matriarch's country home when her dilettante son, his restless wife, and his widowed brother live there together? Strong Passions, rooted in the beguiling times of Edith Wharton's "old New York," recounts the true story of a tumultuous marriage. In 1862, Mary Strong stunned her husband, Peter, by confessing to a two-year affair with his brother. Peter sued Mary for divorce for adultery―the only grounds in New York―but not before she accused him of forcing her into an abortion and having his own affair with the abortionist. She then kidnapped their young daughter and disappeared.

The divorce trial Strong v. Strong riveted the nation during the final throes and aftermath of the Civil War, offering a shocking glimpse into the private world of New York's powerful and privileged elite. Barbara Weisberg presents the chaotic courtroom and panoply of witnesses―governess, housekeeper, private detective, sisters-in-law, and many others―who provided contradictory and often salacious testimony. She then asks us to be the jury, deciding each spouse's guilt and the possibility of a just resolution.

Social history at its most intimate, Strong Passions charts a trial's twists and turns to portray a family and country in turmoil as they faced conflicts over women's changing roles, male custody of children, and men's power―financial and otherwise―over wives.

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"[A] page-turning glimpse into the lives of 19th-century New York's upper crust." —Publishers Weekly (starred review)

"Entertaining Victorian courtroom fireworks." —Kirkus Reviews

"The seductive first sentence of Barbara Weisberg's riveting historical drama, Strong Passions, sweeps the reader into the vanished world of old New York. It sets the scene for a bitterly contested divorce trial that offered a rare glimpse into the lives of men and women of all classes, from tenements to gilded mansions. Strong Passions is that rare combination of page-turner and thought-provoker." ―Helen Whitney, award-winning film producer, writer, and director 

"If you think your divorce was bad, Barbara Weisberg has a story for you! Strong Passions tells the true-life tale of a misbegotten marriage with echoes of Nathaniel Hawthorne, Edith Wharton, and the Real Housewives of New York. A cautionary tale for wives at a time when women's rights are increasingly under attack." ―Debby Applegate, Pulitzer Prize winner and author of Madam: The Biography of Polly Adler, Icon of the Jazz Age

"Strong Passions delivers a superb and insightful narrative of a disappointed young wife and mother who strayed into a lover's arms in 1860s New York City. Barbara Weisberg's rigorous detective work brings clarity to the competing accounts as she carefully teases out the characters' emotions about love, sex, and marriage. Strong Passions is a very engrossing and sympathetic read." ―Patricia Cline Cohen, author of The Murder of Helen Jewett: The Life and Death of a Prostitute in Nineteenth-Century New York

"'He said/she said,'―the characters for and against husband and wife echo the cast of an Agatha Christie whodunit. Strong Passions is a breathless read, a story to challenge the reader's own judgment and character." ―Major General Mari K. Eder, author of The Girls Who Stepped Out of Line: Untold Stories of the Women Who Changed the Course of World War II

"Beautifully written, solidly researched, and singularly empathetic, Barbara Weisberg's Strong Passions is a tour de force. There are plenty of juicy, soap opera-worthy details here, yet Weisberg is alive to their larger social and cultural contexts." ―Clifton Hood, author of In Pursuit of Privilege: A History of New York City's Upper Class and the Making of a Metropolis

"Strong Passions is that rare delight―a fascinating, beautifully written story grounded in research rigorous enough to satisfy the most exacting historian. Weisberg's book is more than a riveting legal drama about gender and power in old New York; it is also a thoughtful commentary on the anxieties created by the shifting boundary between private behaviors and public selves that beset Americans today." ―Joan Shelley Rubin, Dexter Perkins Professor of History, University of Rochester, author of The Making of Middlebrow Culture

"The story of Strong vs. Strong is fascinating, disturbing, and a compelling dip into a divorce of the messiest sort. Weisberg marshals her facts and exposes 19th-century New York divorce laws and the suffering of women who experienced them firsthand." ―Deirdre Sinnott, author of The Third Mrs. Galway

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Marilyn J. (Salem, OR)

A 19th Century Setting, Yet Contemporary Feel
Barbara Weisberg has given the world another fine book. Even in light of the unfolding of this true tale of a tempestuous union, with all its details, she manages to keep us engaged through all the passions and the circumstances that both bind and divide a marriage and a family. The story may be centered within privileged New York society in the 1860's, yet STRONG PASSIONS comes along when marriage, sexuality, and gender seem front and center, even in these times, both legally and within the court of public opinion.

Erica L

Non fiction is not always boring
This non fiction account of a scandalous divorce in the 1860s reads like a novel. We learn much about societal norms, gender inequality, class and the court system of the time. Truth can be stranger than fiction and this story must have been the height of gossip in the upper middle class parlors of old New York. Well written, I would highly recommend.

Tara T. (Carterville, IL)

Strong Passions
This book hooked me from the first page, and I couldn't read it fast enough. Sometimes non-fiction can be dry, but this book reads like a novel. Such a well-written and well-researched book on a divorce from the 1800s - when divorce was scandalous. I really enjoyed reading this one and feel as if it would appeal to a very large audience. Very good book!

Charlene D. (Saugus, MA)

Strong Passions
This book has all of today's current issues at the forefront - adultery, abortion, child custody, and women's rights to name a few. But what is remarkable about it is that it takes place in the 19th century. The more things change, the more they stay the same. At times I found myself in a state of disbelief at what was expected from women and the power men wielded over them. The author is very successful in pulling the reader in as a "member of the jury" when reading the various testimonies at the trial. At times I was on the edge wondering if the divorce would be denied and who wasn't telling the truth. This is non-fiction reading like fiction and hard to put down. This would be an excellent book for book groups. There is so much to talk about the discussion could go on for hours. In conclusion, if you are a history buff or you like how historical fiction reads or you are fiery about women's rights, then put this book on your "Want to Read" list.

Virginia P. (Tallahassee, FL)

Strong Passions
A fascinating and thorough recounting of the divorce trial of Peter Strong vs Mary Strong which takes the reader back to the days when society ruled old New York. Details of the life styles of these families along with the mores of the day, including abortion practices, make the book a captivating read. If you are watching "The Gilded Age" on television, this book is a great companion piece.

Celeste

Strong Passions - A Scandalous Divorce in Old New York
A little something for everyone. If you like courtroom drama, or civil war-era history, or stories about "old" New York high society, or all of the above, then read this book! Meticulously researched, Strong Passions presents a page-turning account of the 1865 divorce proceedings between Peter and Mary Strong set against the backdrop of Victorian Era NYC. But it is not just about what happened in the courtroom. Barbara Weisberg introduces us to Mary and Peter as children growing up in highly privileged families, then guides us through their courtship and early years of marriage, to Mary's explosive admission of adultery. The book seems to be written to evoke sympathy for Mary, particularly because of the lack of rights women held at that time in terms of marriage and custody. However, I think it would have been interesting to have more reflection on what Peter, the wronged partner in the marriage, might have experienced throughout the ordeal. The book is very well written and I will be recommending it to my book club.

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Barbara Weisberg is a former television producer and the author of Talking to the Dead: Kate and Maggie Fox and the Rise of Spiritualism. She lives with her husband in upstate New York.

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