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Tell Me What I Am by Una Mannion

Tell Me What I Am

A Novel

by Una Mannion

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  • Aug 2023, 288 pages
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Two women wrenched apart by a family member's disappearance must find a way back to each other in this haunting page-turner by the author of A Crooked Tree.

Nessa Garvey's sister Deena vanished without a trace in Philadelphia in 2004. In all that time, Nessa has never once doubted what her instincts told her: her sister's ex-husband has gotten away with an unspeakable crime.

Nessa's niece, Ruby, is raised by her father, the man Nessa suspects, in rural Vermont, on the shores of Lake Champlain. Ruby learns how to hunt, how the plants and trees grow, how to avoid making her father angry. The one question she longs to ask is the one she knows she cannot voice: What really happened to her mother?

Over fourteen years, four hundred miles apart, these two women slowly begin to unearth the family history of insidious power and control that has shaped them both in such different ways. But can they reach each other in time?

Tell Me What I Am is a riveting, indelible tour de force of buried secrets and unlikely resilience.

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"In this outstanding mystery ... . Mannion expertly intertwines Nessa and Ruby's stories via visceral, close-third-person narration that alternates perspectives, and weaves through time to build tension and dole out reveals. Her subtly shaded characters add nuance and poignancy. This artful slow burn should earn Mannion new fans." —Publishers Weekly (starred review)

"Mannion creates an emotionally charged yet gently paced thriller that evokes the doubt and anguish that arise after uncertain loss ... . Through a relentlessly tempestuous coming-of-age journey, Ruby emerges as a strong, capable young adult." —Booklist (starred review)

"... a cleverly paced, slow burning psychological thriller steeped in family secrets ... . Mannion's use of language is spare and unembellished, adding a seamless fit to the dark tenor of the story ... . A deep-probing, layered story undulating through the shadows of domestic violence, Tell Me What I Am is a finely wrought psychological thriller that will intrigue the discerning reader ... . It will surely provide a lively topic for book club discussion." —The New York Journal of Books

"I tore through this book with my heart in my throat, desperate to know what happens, but also not wanting it to end. It's the perfect combination of really good writing, a propulsive plot, and fully realized characters. I'll read anything Una Mannion writes." —Mary Beth Keane, New York Times bestselling author of Ask Again, Yes and The Half Moon

"Sharp, poignant, thrilling and moving ... . Tell Me What I Am is the kind of richly drawn, achingly atmospheric crime novel you can totally immerse yourself in." —Chris Whitaker, New York Times bestselling author of We Begin at the End

"Tell Me What I Am by Una Mannion is very VERY good. About the impact on her family when a woman disappears, it's vividly real. The writing is beautiful, the emotions are conveyed exquisitely. There's love here as well as pain." —Marian Keyes, New York Times bestselling author of Sushi for Beginners and Grown Ups

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This novel portrays complexities of domestic abuse, psychological abuse, along with family relationships and the grieving. Multiple layers in this suspenseful novel are slowly peeled back, revealing more and more of the truth that has been hidden from, Ruby, since she was a small child.

Narration was very good and read by, Sophie Amoss. I liked the writing style of Una Mannion and I want to read her debut, A Crooked Tree.

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Una Mannion

Una Mannion was born in Philadelphia and lives in County Sligo Ireland. She has won numerous prizes for her poetry and short stories. Her work has been published in the Irish Times, Winter Papers and anthologized in story collections.

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