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If We're Being Honest: Book summary and reviews of If We're Being Honest by Cat Shook

If We're Being Honest

A Novel

by Cat Shook

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If We're Being Honest by Cat Shook
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  • Published Apr 2023
    304 pages
    Genre: Literary Fiction

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For fans of We Are the Brennans by Tracey Lange and All Adults Here by Emma Straub, Cat Shook's debut novel If We're Being Honest is the snappy, smart, heartwarming story of the Williams family, and the sweltering summer that rewrote their history.

When Gerry, the beloved Williams patriarch, dies suddenly, his grandchildren flock from across the country to the family home in Eulalia, Georgia. But when Gerry's best friend steps up to the microphone to deliver his eulogy, the funeral turns out unlike anyone expected. The cousins, left reeling and confused, cope with their fresh grief and various private dramas. Delia, recently heartbroken, refuses to shut up about her ex. Her sister Alice, usually confident, flusters when she spots her high school sweetheart, hiding a secret that will change both of their lives.

Outspoken, affable Grant is preening in the afterglow of his recent appearance on The Bachelorette and looking to reignite an old flame with the least available person in town. Meanwhile, his younger brother Red, unsure of himself and easily embarrassed, desperately searches for a place in the boisterous family.

The cousins' eccentric parents are in tow, too, and equally lost—in love and in life. Watching over them all is Ellen, Gerry's sweet and proper widow, who does her best to keep her composure in front of the leering small town.

Clever and completely original, If We're Being Honest reminds you that while no one can break your heart like your family can, there's really no one better to put you back together.

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"Shook's delightful and perceptive debut follows a family through an eventful week that begins with a funeral and ends with a wedding... Like a stone skipped across water, Shook flits seamlessly from one character to the next, and remarkably, all emerge as three-dimensional characters. Even with its many strands of plot, the novel never feels rushed, and Shook sprinkles some wild surprises into the goings-on. Readers will find plenty to savor." ―Publishers Weekly (starred review)

"An appealing, astutely observed debut about familial love and the secrets we keep." ―Kirkus Reviews

"In a deep-south small town in Georgia, the Williams patriarch, 82-year-old Gerry, has suddenly passed away from a heart attack. The revelations at his funeral are about to make his clan question everything they thought they knew, especially his four grandchildren, Alice, Delia, Grant, and Red. Their dynamics take center stage in this witty family drama. " ―Booklist

"Cat Shook's debut novel is a poignant and funny look at one family's dynamics." ―Country Living

"When Gerry dies suddenly, his far-flung family returns to Georgia to mourn their patriarch. But when his best friend reveals a shocking secret during his eulogy, it throws the clan into turmoil. Suddenly, the Williams cousins are forced to confront their own secrets while grappling with a new perspective on the man they thought they knew in this heartwarming family saga." ―Good Housekeeping

"I couldn't stop reading. It is phenomenal." ―Christina Lauren, New York Times bestselling author

"A deeply felt and thoughtful debut about a family thrown into chaos during a week that will change them all forever." ―Jennifer E. Smith, bestselling author of The Unsinkable Greta James

"If We're Being Honest delivers my favorite kind of family story: varying levels of hilarious dysfunction, all wrapped around a core of love. I would have gladly kept turning a hundred more pages to follow these cousins." ―Mary Laura Philpott, author of Bomb Shelter: Love, Time, and Other Explosives

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3.5 stars - cute family drama
This was very cute, and a good light option if you're looking for heart-warming family drama.

This takes place over a week between the funeral of the family patriarch and the wedding of a family friend. At the funeral, a major secret is publicly revealed, and several others come to light over the course of the week, affecting every generation of the family.

This took me a minute to get into. There are a lot of characters! And the writing changes perspective constantly, like often one paragraph to the next. Seriously don't listen to this on audio, you'll be lost immediately. The chapters are also really long, so it was one of those books where I was always looking ahead to see how far I had to go.

But it grew on me. Once I got them straight, I found most of the characters really endearing, and enjoyed seeing how their stories played out. It had some really touching moments as well as some funny ones. As a fan of the Bachelor franchise, I also very much enjoyed that one of the characters was on The Bachelorette!

I don't think this is one that will necessarily stick with me, but I did end up really enjoying it, it's very cute family story.

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Cat Shook

Cat Shook graduated from the University of Georgia in 2016 with degrees in Creative Writing and Mass Media Arts. Born and raised in Georgia, she now lives in Manhattan. If We're Being Honest is her first novel.

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