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Managing Expectations by Minnie Driver

Managing Expectations

A Memoir in Essays

by Minnie Driver

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  • May 2022, 288 pages
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A charming, poignant, and mesmerizing memoir in essays from beloved actor and natural-born storyteller Minnie Driver, chronicling the way life works out even when it doesn't.

In this intimate, beautifully crafted collection, Driver writes with disarming charm and candor about her bohemian upbringing between England and Barbados; her post-university travails and triumphs—from being the only student in her acting school not taken on by an agent to being discovered at a rave in a muddy field in the English countryside; shooting to fame in one of the most influential films of the 1990s and being nominated for an Academy Award; and finding the true light of her life, her son. She chronicles her unconventional career path, including the time she gave up on acting to sell jeans in Uruguay, her journey as a single parent, and the heartbreaking loss of her mother.

Like Lena Dunham in Not That Kind of Girl, Gabrielle Union in We're Going to Need More Wine and Patti Smith in Just Kids, Driver writes with razor-sharp humor and grace as she explores navigating the depths of failure, fighting for success, discovering the unmatched wonder and challenge of motherhood, and wading through immeasurable grief. Effortlessly charming, deeply funny, personal, and honest, Managing Expectations reminds us of the way life works out—even when it doesn't.

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"[A] series of deftly crafted essays...Driver's spirited prose informs all the essays; a standout is her graceful, moving chronicle, radiant with love, of her mother's last days. Sharp observations and quirky irreverence make for a delightful read." - Kirkus Reviews (starred review)

"Actor Driver parlays her ebullient charm from the screen to the page in this sparkling debut, a series of amusing essays on Hollywood, motherhood, and the vicissitudes of life...Humorous and heartfelt, this is sure to please fans." - Publishers Weekly

"To reveal oneself in a manner that is at once poignant and fiercely intelligent while also being funny, warm, and genuine, is quite a feat. Minnie Driver shows us she is even more than what's met the eye all these years. Simply put: I love this book!" - Therese Ann Fowler, author of A Good Neighborhood and Z: A Novel of Zelda Fitzgerald

"We have all been charmed by Minnie Driver on the screen, but it's a divine pleasure to learn the woman behind some of our most beloved characters is a writer of true precision, wit and style who has had a life more compelling than any movie. This book will be a companion to those struggling to make sense of their own story and a clarion call to mothers (of all kinds) grappling with their identity. I was comforted, galvanized, touched and - no surprise considering the author - charmed, too." - Lena Dunham

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JMI

As Good as I Expected
The best thing about this book was, of course, the writing. I'm guessing this lady could write about almost anything and make it sound funny, interesting, poignant and worth knowing. The worst thing about this book was the ending. All too soon it came to an end and my short shared journey with this highly intelligent, witty, imperfect yet keen to learn life explorer was over. It doesn't start at the beginning and end in the present, but captures pivotal episodes in Minnie Driver's life without commentary, excuse or any request for approval. A quick visit to the World Wide Web will join the dots. Thank you Minnie, for sharing with me what has been a pleasure to read about. More please.

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Minnie Driver

Minnie Driver is an English and American actress, singer, and songwriter whose films include Circle of Friends, GoldenEye, Big Night, Grosse Pointe Blank, Sleepers, Ella Enchanted, The Phantom of the Opera, and most recently, the Amazon Original film Cinderella. For her role as Skylar in Gus Van Sant's Good Will Hunting, she was nominated for both the Academy Award for Best Supporting Actress and a Screen Actors Guild Award. She has also starred in several television series, including The Riches, for which she received Emmy and Golden Globe nominations, Speechless, Will and Grace, and Amazon's Modern Love. She has also recorded three albums, Everything I've Got in My Pocket, Seastories, and Ask Me to Dance all of which received considerable critical acclaim. She lives in Los Angeles.

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