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Behave by Andromeda Romano-Lax

Behave

by Andromeda Romano-Lax

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  • Mar 2016, 400 pages
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"The mother begins to destroy the child the moment it's born," wrote the founder of behaviorist psychology, John B. Watson, whose 1928 parenting guide was revered as the child-rearing bible. For their dangerous and "mawkish" impulses to kiss and hug their child, "most mothers should be indicted for psychological murder."

Behave is the story of Rosalie Rayner, Watson's ambitious young wife and the mother of two of his children.

In 1920, when she graduated from Vassar College, Rayner was ready to make her mark on the world. Intelligent, beautiful, and unflappable, she won a coveted research position at Johns Hopkins assisting the charismatic celebrity psychologist John B. Watson. Together, Watson and Rayner conducted controversial experiments on hundreds of babies to prove behaviorist principles. They also embarked on a scandalous affair that cost them both their jobs - and recast the sparkling young Rosalie Rayner, scientist and thinker, as Mrs. John Watson, wife and conflicted, maligned mother, just another "woman behind a great man."

With Behave, Andromeda Romano-Lax offers a provocative fictional biography of Rosalie Rayner Watson, a woman whose work influenced generations of Americans, and whose legacy has been lost in the shadow of her husband's. In turns moving and horrifying, Behave is a richly nuanced and disturbing novel about science, progress, love, marriage, motherhood, and what all those things cost a passionate, promising young woman.

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"Starred Review. Rayner finally has the spotlight in this compelling fictional memoir." - Kirkus

"Starred Review. By detailing how the study of human behavior differs from understanding people, and how smart women can miss the obvious and make mistakes, Romano-Lax sheds a harsh yet deeply moving light on feminism and psychology, in theory and in practice." - Publishers Weekly

"Romano-Lax offers a fascinating novel about the psyche of a complex woman and the infancy of behavioral psychology. " - Booklist

"Because of its subject matter, this is a novel that may work best for those interested in psychology and history." - Library Journal

"A fascinating exploration of ethical and psychological unraveling ... With the skill and confidence of a master, Andromeda Romano-Lax crafts a deeply personal narrative of a complex woman who lived in history's gaps. Quite simply, I tore through this book and so should you." - Erika Swyler, author of The Book of Speculation

"Behave invites us to explore a lifetime of questions about science, ethics, motherhood, sexual attraction, and love." - Hall P. Beck, Ph.D., Professor of Psychology at Appalachian State University and author of Finding Little Albert

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Cathryn Conroy

Biographical Fiction That Almost Qualifies as a Horror Story
This is a work of biographical fiction that almost qualifies as a horror story. Using fact and poetic license--after all, it is a novel--author Andromeda Romano-Lax profiles the life of Rosalie Raynor Watson, the wife of Dr. John B. Watson, who developed in the 1920s the controversial psychological theory of behaviorism. Specifically, Watson advocated that parents should put their newborns on a rigid feeding and sleeping schedule, ignore their cries, hold them as little as possible and never kiss or cuddle them. To arrive at this theory, he and Rosalie, his laboratory assistant at Johns Hopkins University, conducted cruel psychological and physical experiments on newborns, most of whom were orphans. (This is where it turned into a horror story for me.)

John, who was married and had two children, had a torrid affair with Rosalie. The affair was quickly exposed and even publicized in the mainstream press, which ruined John's academic career at Johns Hopkins and mortified Rosalie's family. Eventually, John was able to divorce his first wife and marry Rosalie, although he continued having multiple lovers on the side. The couple moved to New York City to begin life anew, but the gossip followed them there, too. Rosalie, a 1920 graduate of Vassar, was frustrated most of her life, unable to have a career in science as she had always dreamed and unhappy as a mother of two boys.

This is a fascinating, well-written story not only of life in the roaring '20s among the rich and educated, but also the incredible power parents have over their children's psychological development. Read it!

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Andromeda Romano-Lax

Andromeda Romano-Lax is the author of The Spanish Bow, a New York Times Editors' Choice that has been translated into 11 languages, and The Detour, as well as numerous works of nonfiction. She teaches in the low-residency MFA program at the University of Alaska Anchorage and is a co-founder of 49 Writers, a statewide literary organization. Recently, she has divided her time among Alaska, Mexico, and Asia.

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