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Wow! Just wow! I am a mental health professional and as I read this book, I spent the entire time trying to diagnose Elizabeth. In the beginning Elizabeth is extremely likable and seems to have a great sense of humor. It seems Elizabeth has been planning her life around getting into Harvard law school . She literally has done everything right and doesn't even consider the possibility of not getting into Harvard. Then the unthinkable happens and she gets a rejection letter from Harvard. She makes an appointment with an advisor to help her understand what went wrong and he basically tells her that she is just a boring Asian female and there's nothing that sets her apart from other Asian women. So, she goes to work to change this and plans to reapply with Harvard.

However, her life begins to spiral and she is met with one disaster of her own making after another and she becomes unstable. It is truly like watching her sink further and further into madness. As for a proper diagnosis, there's not just one. In fact there are many along the way. Though low self esteem is not a diagnosis in itself, it is certainly at the root of all of her issues.

Boring Asian Female is so very well written I feel guilty for wondering why I read this sad depressing story. Written in the first person Elizabeth has no self worth, no self esteem during her high school and college years. Super smart she is obsessed with attending Harvard Law School.. When the School rejects her application Elizabeth begins to unravel. Begins lying, cheating manipulating everyone and everything to get Harvard to reconsider.

Even with a WOW ending the book made me uncomfortable. Maybe that is what the author intended..

This was a very cringeworthy book. If I hadn't agreed to review I may have or have finished it. I felt the same way about Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine. Elizabeth is a very high achieving student. Everyone she meets she rates on percentiles regarding, attractiveness and intelligence. Elizabeth becomes obsessed with one of her classmates. I felt uncomfortable for first 60-70 of the book. Didn't like Elizabeth but she was very interesting. I think this would be a good book for a book club.

3.5 stars Thanks to BookBrowse for the ARC and NetGalley for the download for an unbiased opinion. Publishes April 28, 2026 by Berkley.

Elizabeth is obsessed with getting into the Harvard Law progam. She will do anything to complete her goal. Including stalk and sabotage a fellow student, continue an unwanted pregnancy, lie and take advantage of friends. Liz is the protagonist that you hate, but also the one that keeps you turning pages.

Great academic setting, protagonist that you love to hate, and a couple of nice twists that were unexpected. Very good debut novel - up to date, current in today's ideology, and the descriptive of Asian American problems. This book hits on mental health, 'whiteness' and privilege, the pressures on college students to do well and strive for more, along with the alcohol and drugs that are prevalent in their lives.

Boring Asian Female by Canwen Xu has a premise that seems tailor-made for me: an unhinged, unreliable narrator, and a Columbia University setting that felt vividly nostalgic to me, an alum. And yes, anyone that went to Columbia is an unhinged overachiever in some manner, so it should have been highly relatable to me in that sense as well.

The novel follows Elizabeth, a deeply obsessive young woman who becomes fixated on clawing her way toward Harvard Law by any means necessary. Harvard Law isn't just Harvard Law — it represents to Elizabeth the culmination of her version of the American Dream. Xu clearly has sharp ideas about ambition, performance, race, and the suffocating pressure of being seen as legible, harmless, or "acceptable," and the title gestures toward that tension in a way that feels intentionally provocative, but the book never really does much to either subvert or confirm those expectations. Elizabeth's blandness is never really blandness at all; it is a mask, a social script, and in some ways a weapon.

That said, for reasons I still can't fully pin down, I never quite connected with the book. On paper, Elizabeth is exactly the kind of protagonist I usually enjoy: messy, delusional, self-justifying, and always one bad decision away from disaster. But although the novel keeps raising the stakes, I never felt the queasy, tightening dread that this kind of story usually thrives on. Part of that is because Elizabeth's plans never felt convincing enough to inspire real fear; at nearly every stage, I could see obvious holes in her logic and imagine a dozen ways she could be caught. And just when consequences seemed ready to land, the book often introduced convenient escapes that let her wriggle free. The result was a story that never gripped me. While it was intellectually interesting and had many sharp and trenchant opinions, it was missing the visceral tension that would have made Elizabeth's spiral truly unforgettable.

Elizabeth Zhang, Chinese-American overachiever, is the only Chinese person in her high school class. She suffers the usual racist micro aggressions and ignorant questions, then sets her sights on Colombian University to get out of town. She is accepted to Columbia and feels vindicated.

In her freshman year at Columbia, Elizabeth sets her eyes on Harvard Law School after graduation and then plots every step to ensure she is accepted, including a near perfect score on her LSAT.

However, her world is shattered when she is rejected, and she assumes another Asian student has taken her spot. Thus begins her slow psychological unraveling and jealous obsession with Laura.

It took me about 1/2 way through the book to realize it is a parody. Elizabeth proves an unreliable narrator as she loses grip on objectivity and becomes a caricature of a delusional Harvard wannabe. She hatches unhinged plan after plan to sabotage her competitor and get a second look from Harvard's team.

Indeed, it is a parody also of the lengths that young people go to in order to fit into a narrow category of external self worth, leading to mental illness.

What starts as Elizabeth's frustrating downward spiral turns into a story of redemption and wisdom gained through a crucible: when we let go of something and stop chasing it, it comes back to us.

Hi Kim, Im sorry but I could not get into this book. I read about 1/3 and didn't engage. Didnt like the character.

When I first began reading the book, I found the percentile ratings amusing. However, as the character's fixation on them grew into an obsession, the story took a much darker and more unsettling turn. The book effectively illustrates how intense pressure to achieve can lead to unhealthy and even deadly consequences. Over time, I became less sympathetic toward the protagonist and ultimately came to dislike her. Despite this, I continued reading because I was intrigued to see how far her obsession would go and the toll it took on her friends and family. I would give it 3 1/2 stars.