I agree also with previous posts. In reference to Kinder, Kuche, Kirche, it was stated at a 1931 meeting of The National Socialist Women's League that "a woman could blossom and best serve the interest of Germany", so it wasn't only the men that were telling women what to do. Also noteworthy, in 1935 during a speech to the National Socialist Women's Congress, Hitler declared, with regards to women's rights: In reality, the granting of so-called equal rights to women, as demanded by Marxism, does not confer equal rights to all, but constitutes the deprivation of rights, since they draw women into a zone where they can only be inferior. It places women in situations where they cannot strengthen their position with regard to men and with society but only weakens them.
At that time though, Aryan women did become Nazis party members even though it was decreed by the party that they could not join. Of course many restrictions were lifted once wartime necessity dictated changes to policy. There also were a few exceptions for women to excel in particular fields, such as being a filmmaker, aviator, or scientist. But to me the worst of all positions held by women were the ones who filled official posts at the heart of the concentration camps.