I think Woody had one idea, reinforced by the actions and words of his father, about how a man should behave. Old Man helped him see that there was more than one way to be a man. In spite of Woody’s poor relationship with his father, Woody definitely had his determination and drive. That determination kept his dad on the farm during the worst of times, believing that he would do better as soon as the rain came. Woody used this same determination to get east to Cuz, and again to make up his mind to get to California no matter what. He was also able to learn to rely on other people and be more honest. He was terrified of sharing his secret about the last days at the farm. I think the giraffes helped him open up. His dad kept everything inside and was angry. Woody shared his burden and found a sense of freedom.