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Where Are You Really From by Elaine Hsieh Chou

Where Are You Really From

Stories

by Elaine Hsieh Chou
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  • Aug 19, 2025, 352 pages
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  • Aug 2026, 352 pages
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From the critically-acclaimed author of Disorientation, a multi-genre story collection that explores the limits and possibilities of storytelling.

A mail order bride from Taiwan is packed up in a cardboard box and sent via express shipping to California, where her much older husband awaits her. Two teenage girls meticulously plan how to kill and cook their downstairs neighbor. An American au pair moves to Paris to find herself, only to find her actual French doppelgänger. A father reunites with his estranged daughter in unusual circumstances: as a background actor on the set of her film. And in "Casualties of Art," a writer's affair with a married artist tests the line between fact and fiction, self-victimization and the victimization of others.

In these six singular stories and a novella that pivot from the terrible to the beautiful to the surreal, Elaine Hsieh Chou confronts the slipperiness of truth in storytelling. With razor-sharp precision and psychological acuity, she peels back the tales we tell ourselves to peer beneath them: at our treacherous desires, our self-deceptions and our capacity for cruelty, both to ourselves and each other. Expansive and provocative, Where Are You Really From is a visionary achievement.

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Where Are You Really From covers the messiness of desire and the search for identity, companionship, and family—along with the stories we tell ourselves. Chou's narratives stand out due to her remarkable creativity. She weaves in deceptive situations not just for her characters but also for the reader, prompting us to think deeply about what's real and what's imagined. This makes the stories both engaging and unpredictable, leaving you eager to turn page after page to see where they'll go next. I love how they explore the multiple layers within a person—particularly how even the most seemingly kind and innocent individuals can harbor the capacity for cruelty. This challenges our assumptions about who is capable of what, especially in situations of retaliation, where characters lash out against those who have upset or harmed them...continued

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Chicago Review of Books
Reading Where Are You Really From feels like exploring a liminal space; her stories are deeply witty and slightly off-kilter, nestled perfectly at the boundary between the impossible and the all too plausible.

Shelf Awareness
While deftly exploring diverse genres—coming-of-age, speculative, contemporary realism, auto- and meta-fiction—Chou convincingly interrogates and exposes unsettling relationships between family members, lovers, and former strangers...Yes, fiction is imagined and created, but Chou also manages to shrewdly, impressively deceive...Chou's intriguing first collection of stories showcases diverse genres, agitated relationships, and—oh, so very cleverly—unreliable narration.

The Millions
Chou's clever collection, which includes short stories and a novella, features a cast of characters who invariably find themselves in extraordinary situations that shake up their sense of self and make them reconsider their place in the world.

Booklist (starred review)
Characters grapple with desire, loneliness, acceptance, self-fulfillment, and obsession in these haunting, character-driven tales that lead readers on enticingly mysterious trajectories. Complex protagonists find themselves in strange situations tackling literal origins like race and culture, or in abstractions like emotions, behaviors, and viewpoints ... Thought-provoking and astute, Chou's compelling latest (after her debut, Disorientation, 2022) leaves readers in capable hands.

Kirkus Reviews (starred review)
Chou is gifted at storytelling with a surrealistic bent...The collection's title is a classic microaggression—a way to box people as foreign or other. Nobody in the book actually utters the question, but throughout Chou cleverly exposes just how difficult humanity is to simplify, whatever our provenance. Sharp storytelling that bends and blurs genre expectations.

Publishers Weekly (starred review)
The six stories and novella in this scintillating collection from Chou explore themes of beauty, identity, and morality...Throughout, Chou's surrealism feels all too real...These expressive and atmospheric tales mesmerize.

Library Journal
Following Chou's successful debut novel, Disorientation, comes a collection of six stories and a novella, all featuring intriguing Asian and Asian American characters...Chou's writing maintains its humor while touching on serious, even taboo topics, such as interracial adoption, ethnocentrism, sex work, and fidelity...Chou establishes herself as a writer to watch with another thought-provoking offering. For readers who can appreciate Chou's no-holds-barred approach to storytelling, this collection is an excellent book-club candidate.

Author Blurb Aimee Bender, author of The Particular Sadness of Lemon Cake and The Girl in the Flammable Skirt
It's the clarity of the voice that gets me here—Chou's worlds are strange and new and absurd, but the prose is utterly convincing and I found myself happily immersed in each new story's investigation. Thoroughly enjoyable!

Author Blurb Alissa Nutting, author of Made for Love and Tampa
Delicious, confessional, shocking, and poignant—this collection is like getting to hear every conversation at the world's most interesting dinner party. Chou crafts unexpected twists at the intersections of identity, sexuality, and obsession to make each story a wholly new surprise. It's impossible to put this masterful book down.

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Marriage as a Path to American Citizenship

Photo of a couple's hands over a wedding bouquet In Elaine Hsieh Chou's short story collection Where Are You Really From, "Mail Order Love" examines certain realities of American "green card marriages" and "mail-order" brides (women seeking long-distance romantic connection and marriage through a service, typically to men from other countries), despite some very fictionalized elements.

Getting a green card through marriage, or a marriage-based green card, allows a spouse of a US citizen or permanent resident to live and work in the US. It's a common path to citizenship. After approval for a marriage-based green card, the spouse becomes a permanent resident and can apply for citizenship following three years of marriage. Marrying solely for a green card is considered a crime and ...

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