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All We Ever Wanted by Emily Giffin

All We Ever Wanted

by Emily Giffin

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  • Jun 2018, 352 pages
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In the riveting new novel from the #1 bestselling author of Something Borrowed and First Comes Love, three very different people must choose between their families and their most deeply held values...

Nina Browning is living the good life after marrying into Nashville's elite. More recently, her husband made a fortune selling his tech business, and their adored son has been accepted to Princeton. 

Yet sometimes the middle-class small-town girl in Nina wonders if she's strayed from the person she once was.

Tom Volpe is a single dad working multiple jobs while struggling to raise his headstrong daughter, Lyla. His road has been lonely, long, and hard, but he finally starts to relax after Lyla earns a scholarship to Windsor Academy, Nashville's most prestigious private school.

Amid so much wealth and privilege, Lyla doesn't always fit in - and her overprotective father doesn't help - but in most ways, she's a typical teenaged girl, happy and thriving.

Then, one photograph, snapped in a drunken moment at a party, changes everything. As the image spreads like wildfire, the Windsor community is instantly polarized, buzzing with controversy and assigning blame.

At the heart of the lies and scandal, Tom, Nina, and Lyla are forced together - all questioning their closest relationships, asking themselves who they really are, and searching for the courage to live a life of true meaning.

Please be aware that this discussion guide will contain spoilers!
  1. Discuss the title, All We Ever Wanted. How do you think it relates to the overall story? How does it apply to each of the characters in the book?
  2. Both Nina and Kirk have very different ideas about what the "right path" is for Finch. How do you think each parent justifies their actions?
  3. Tom is furious about the transgression against his daughter, and believes she deserves justice. How do Tom's responsibilities as a parent come into conflict with the ethics of respecting Lyla's wishes?
  4. As the book progresses, Nina finds herself siding with Tom's values rather than her husband's. Do you feel that Nina is betraying her family by aligning with Tom? Is she betraying herself if she does not stick to her beliefs? Whom does...
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"Starred Review. Stellar ... an excellent page-turning story ... a nuanced, thoughtful take on family and social dynamics." - Publishers Weekly

"A compelling portrait of a woman facing the difficult limits of love." - Kirkus

"Using the points of view of Nina, Lyla (the girl in the photograph), and Lyla's father, Tom, Giffin weaves a story of what parents will do to protect their children, even if it's from themselves. But the story lacks authenticity and sincerity. The author's attempts to call out white privilege fall a little flat, which may disappoint new readers, though longtime fans will appreciate her beach-read style exploration of serious issues." - Booklist

"A timely and absorbing portrait of the complexities of modern life. This is Emily Giffin at her very best." - Kristin Hannah

"Riveting and poignant, Emily Giffin's latest novel paints an impossible dilemma that will make readers ponder hard questions about loyalty and love. I was captivated by every page." - Harlan Coben

"A compelling, fascinating story told through blue-ribbon dialogue and the dual gifts of intelligence and goodness. I loved this novel." - Elinor Lipman

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Original plot
Spellbinding page turner exposes different types of folks who question the paths their lives have taken, and the difficulty of facing negative realities.

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Highly recommended
Thoroughly enjoyed this book. Easy to read, interesting plot, good characters. Enough twists and turns to keep your interest. And no unnecessary hard to believe plot twists.

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Emily Giffin Author Biography

Emily Giffin is the New York Times bestselling author of Something Borrowed (which was also made into a movie and released in May 2011), Something Blue, Baby Proof and Love The One You're With. She lives in Atlanta with her husband and three young children. Her eighth novel is First Comes Love (2016).

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