Helen's abrupt death of her beloved father threw her into a deep, depression grief cycle. She worked herself out of it with the training & life with Mabel. She also had a supportive family & friends. Since she was involved in falconry before her father's death, it does not seem unrealistic that in her time of deep need she'd turn to her love of the birds.
On the other hand, White came from a dysfunctional family - abusive & non-supporting. He had trouble with his teaching & he had no one to teach him about training Gos. Helen had much more to draw on for her successful training. She could build on her positive progression in training whereas White had failures to build on failures. White was a tormented man; his era was not supportive & alcoholism in the beginning helped him ease the pain before it became part of his problem.
White & Helen are similar in their "loss" & the hawks connect them.