Williams reveals that a man named Joseph terrorized her when she was a teaching assistant in the Sawtooth Wilderness of Idaho. What are the consequences when we don't speak out? What roles do guilt, shame and doubt play in that decision?
Created: 03/08/13
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Williams reveals that a man named Joseph terrorized her when she was a teaching assistant in the Sawtooth Wilderness of Idaho. What are the consequences when we don't speak out? What roles do guilt, shame and doubt play in that decision?
Join Date: 10/06/12
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The "not speaking out" consequences show up everyday in the newspapers and the news shows. A person who terrorizes one person will go on to continue the bad behavior again and again. It should be noted the behavior frequently escalates. Those who could have prevented a bad outcome often verbalize they do feel guilt they did not come forward. I would think they would have to have some semblance of shame or guilt if there is an unfortunate outcome. On the other hand - if there is doubt a situation is as it appears do we meddle? This could be one of those "on the other hand" discussions.
Join Date: 12/17/12
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First, I have to decide if it's any of my business. I have opinions about how my grandchildren are raised, but it's better if I keep my mouth shut since my son and his wife are good, responsible parents, even if I think the kids won't die if they eat a potato chip. On the other hand, not speaking up can endanger myself or other people, as in Terry's case with Joseph. A lot of bad things will never change if no one speaks up. Terry's environmental group had a lot more success than they would have had if they'd kept quiet.
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