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How are names used as metaphors in the novel?
What is the meaning behind how names are given (i.e., attribute names for the children and the
family name shared by the Bradleys of Oklahoma), and do you think they serve a purpose?
How does the writer explore the bond between Sorrow and Amity? In what ways is their
relationship typical of the bond between sisters?
The children in the polygamous community were illiterate. What are the implications and
impact of that type of ignorance? Is a faith that is designed to keep its believers ignorant and
isolated a "true" faith?
How can blind faith be dangerous? Was Sorrow brainwashed or devout?
Who defines what makes a family, and is there a true definition of family anymore? Do you think
these polygamous women are a "true" family?
Are there scenarios that can justify a polygamous lifestyle? What are the benefits of a
polygamous community to the wives in Amity & Sorrow? Do you think Amity will be drawn to
live a polygamous lifestyle?
What role did meth play in the story? What did that add to the plot or reveal about the
Is it a fair exchange to join a faith and a family to "get clean"? Who gets more out of the
exchangethe individual women or the family in total? Does a faith that offers a safe place of
healing appeal to you, or is it a kind of con?
One of the hardest decisions a mother can make is to turn against her child. How does
Amaranth struggle with this decision? Do you think she makes the right choice?
To what extent was Sorrow a victim? Or did she become a willing participant when she returned
"home"? At what age should children be responsible for their actions?
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