Excerpt of The Best Care Possible by Ira Byock
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Americans are scared to death of dying. And with good reason.
While rarely easy under any circumstances, we make dying a lot
harder than it has to be.
A large majority of Americans still die in hospitals or nursing homes.
Many suffer poorly controlled pain or other physical miseries and
endure their final days feeling undignified and a burden to others.
Few of us can even imagine how things might be different. Therein
lies the crux of the problem. Our society and mainstream American culture have never grappled with the fundamental fact of mortality; therefore, we do not know what to expect or what is possible. When someone we love is diagnosed with a life- threatening condition, the worst thing we can imagine is that he or she might die. The sobering fact is that there are worse things than having someone you love die.
Most basic, there is having the person you love die badly, suffering as he or she dies. Worse still is realizing later on that much of his or her suffering was unnecessary.
This book is about understanding the dangers that confront seriously
ill and dying people and their families, and avoiding the pitfalls that ensnare so many. It is about how things could be better - much better - for ourselves, the people we love, and, eventually, for our national community and culture. Most immediately, The Best Care Possible is about how to make the best of what is often the very worst time of life.
When it comes to caring for people with advanced illnesses, our
social systems are so broken and our health care system is so dysfunctional and, frankly, neglectful that it would be easy to become furious. In truth, however, this predicament is no one's fault. It is a consequence of living in remarkable, unprecedented times.
Death is the most inevitable fact of life. But the experience of dying
has changed over the course of history, especially within the past fifty
years. In many ways dying has become a lot harder. We are the benefactors and victims of scientific success. Serious, chronic illness is an invention of the late twentieth century, the fruit of our species' intellectual prowess, the culmination (at least so far) of millennia of scientific progress. Throughout history, Homo sapiens have mostly died quickly. Primitives commonly died in childbirth or as infants. Children and adults died due to trauma and infections that today would be considered almost trivial, things like appendicitis or a fall that results in an open arm bone fracture that then gets infected. But our ancestors also died in short order from cancer, kidney failure, and heart failure, which people in the twenty- first century are either cured of or live with for many months or years.
These advances exemplify the good fortune we have to be living in
the present day. But our species' epochal success in staving off death
impacts contemporary individual and communal life in ways we have
yet to understand. Prolonged serious illness, physical dependence,
senescence, and senility are now common facts of late life. Our society
and culture - all of our respective cultures - must factor this new normal "waning stage of life" into our expectations and plans.
It is not easy to die well in modern times.
Because so many treatments now work, many people survive longer with one, or several, previously lethal conditions. Clinicians now talk
about a patient's "illness burden," a term for the accumulated aches,
pains, and disabilities that come with diseases and the side effects of
treatment. As odd as it may sound, people are sicker before they die
today than ever before.
In general, our health care system doesn't do a good job of helping
people deal with the burden of illness. Striking medical advances
in prolonging or replacing organ functions have not been matched by
proficiency in preserving comfort and quality of life for people who are
ill or their families. Even in otherwise excellent medical centers, conscientious professionals lack key skills that are essential for comprehensive caring. Busy clinicians tend to give short shrift to communicating fully with patients, treating pain or nausea or difficulty sleeping, or coordinating appointments for blood and imaging tests, office visits, medications, and transmitting critical information among various specialists.
Reprinted from The Best Care Possible by Ira Byock by arrangement with Avery Books, a member of Penguin Group (USA) Inc., Copyright © 2012 by Ira Byock.