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Back When We Were Grownups: Summary and book reviews of Back When We Were Grownups by Anne Tyler, plus links to an excerpt from Back When We Were Grownups and a biography of Anne Tyler.

Back When We Were Grownups

Back When We Were Grownups
by Anne Tyler
Hardcover: May 2001,
256 pages.
Paperback: Apr 2002,
304 pages.

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Critics' Opinion:   very good
Readers' Rating:  Four Stars
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BOOK SUMMARY

"Once upon a time, there was a woman who discovered that she had turned into the wrong person." So Anne Tyler opens this irresistible new novel.

The woman is Rebecca Davitch, a fifty-three-year-old grandmother. Is she an impostor in her own life? she asks herself. Is it indeed her own life? Or is it someone else’s?

On the surface, Beck, as she is known to the Davitch clan, is outgoing, joyous, a natural celebrator. Giving parties is, after all, her vocation--something she slipped into even before finishing college, when Joe Davitch spotted her at an engagement party in his family’s crumbling nineteenth-century Baltimore row house, where giving parties was the family business. What caught his fancy was that she seemed to be having such a wonderful time. Soon this large-spirited older man, a divorcé with three little girls, swept her into his orbit, and before she knew it she was embracing his extended family plus a child of their own, and hosting endless parties in the ornate, high-ceilinged rooms of The Open Arms.

Now, some thirty years later, after presiding over a disastrous family picnic, Rebecca is caught unawares by the question of who she really is. How she answers it--how she tries to recover her girlhood self, that dignified grownup she had once been--is the story told in this beguiling, funny, and deeply moving novel.

As always with Anne Tyler’s novels, once we enter her world it is hard to leave. But in Back When We Were Grownups she so sharpens our perceptions and awakens so many untapped feelings that we come away not only refreshed and delighted, but also infinitely wiser.

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Very Good  Kirkus Reviews
Packed with life in all its humdrum complexity--and funny, so funny, the kind that compels reading aloud. A masterful effort from one of our very best.

Very Good  Book - The Magazine for the Reading Life -- Beth Kephart
This is storytelling at its best and most breathtaking. Tyler, an acknowledged master of the form, is living up to her well-earned reputation.

Very Good  Publishers Weekly
The ease of her storytelling here is breathtaking, but almost unnoticeable because, rather like Rebecca, Tyler never calls attention to what she does.

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Rated 4 of 5 of 5 by Jenna
Interesting
I enjoyed the book. I read it for a school project, and I am happy that I chose this book. Tyler made the story come to life. I felt that I was right there standing next to her throughout the whole book. I coudn't wait to find out what would...   Read More

Rated 4 of 5 of 5 by Anonymous
The first chapter I thought I would never remember who everyone was, there were too many characters all thrown in at once - but after that I like the book but did hope for a happy ending.

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