My experience is radically different from Geeta’s. She was victim of severe physical and emotional abuse, and her community let it happen repeatedly because of the commonly held view that domestic abuse is an issue between a husband and wife and others shouldn’t interfere. I’ve never experienced anything remotely similar. I have sympathy with the women wanting to “off” their brutal, despicable husbands in a culture that seems to give the women no other recourse to escape their victimization. In my situation, I do have recourse - though the U.S. justice system is imperfect, it is responsive to domestic abuse. Additionally, my community and culture offer a number of support mechanisms for women subjected to domestic abuse.