Adapt - to become adjusted to new conditions
Sacrifice - the act of giving up something valued for the sake of something else regarded as more important or worthy
We all adapt as our situations change. We adjust to new conditions - whether they be marriage, children, divorce. Sacrifice is something different entirely. But, even then, we only sacrifice when we determine what we are giving up is less valuable than the desired result. Of course, the desired result is rarely the actual outcome. Sacrifice is a gamble. Adaptation is the natural occurrence of change through circumstance. For example, Meri adapted to life in New Mexico. She learned to educate herself, adjust to the social expectations, and even the climate. She sacrificed her formal education for Alden's career. Did the gamble work in her favor? Not by today's standards. And, not in Meri's perspective - at least for a long time. But, in the end, she chose him again. So, even though I'm not certain I would have made the same decisions or sacrifices, she made the second sacrifice (Clay) with her eyes wide open.