I, like Elsa, had the world's best grandmother. Also, like Eva, she was my mother's mother and she was my rock, my advisor, my cheerleader and my favorite person. My father was seriously ill when I was young and passed away when I was only 8. My grandmother always seemed be with me when I needed her the most - this is only surprising when you learn that she lived in Chicago and we lived in CT.
She had many, many sayings but one that keeps coming back to me as I age is "once a man, twice a child." I think that as one ages, one lets go of many pretensions that seem so important when growing up, allowing one to appreciate life again as a child does. For example, my grandmother and I would dance the "Fairy's Revel" (think lots of twirling and leaping on tip-toes) in the hallway of her apartment building when the mood struck us. By the time I was a teenager, I would be mortified at the thought of doing such a thing! It would take lots of persuasion (and probably some spirits) do the same as an adult, but as a youngster and a senior, we would dance with abandon.
As we all know, everyone can learn from one another. We all are blessed with imaginations and wonderful brains that churn out ideas. The key is to be able to suspend judgment, like the young and old seem to do so well, and listen.