joyces, katherinep, thanks. I think you're right, a message here is definitely that women need to take charge of their own lives, which does mean willingness to challenge conventions/expectations at times. I think that is still true today, even if we do have more freedom (or, some of us do). I wasn't raised to take charge... there was the unspoken assumption that as a strong student, I should get a college education, but no expectation that I should plan for a career, or for taking care of myself. No teacher or guidance counselor (as they were called then) ever raised that a possibility... not even in the 60s! Now I realize this is why I was paralyzed with indecision about even choosing a major. Nearly 50 years later, I've had two careers, and having been widowed twice, I've been forced to learn to take care of myself. In today's economic climate in the US, women must work even if they do have partners, so the expectations of working have changed, at least, but not necessarily the expectations of taking charge of our own lives -- demanding raises, equal pay for equal work, a career as opposed to a job, a partnership instead of handling most all of the domestic responsibilities, taking time for oneself, etc. I sense this is more common now, certainly for my daughters, but I wonder how true it is for women in poverty or with less education, in America at least where there is no social safety net compared to Europe. So maybe that makes the author's inclusion of women on all socio-economic levels more important, part of her message, not just a plot device.