As a victim of a violent crime, there are a lot of emotions that go through your head during the crime if it is an extended amount of time. Loss of control is exactly right and afterwards, long afterwards, I'm sure Wes felt there was something he should have done differently to stop Williams and save his friend and himself. I'm sure this is amplified by the fact that he was a correctional officer and was supposed to be in control. The paralyzing anxiety of what will happen next, when will it stop and for Wes, will I ever play again is excruciating. As we saw when he donated blood, there are little everyday events that can trigger that anxiety. Which is worse? For Wes, initially it seemed the loss of control but at the end it seemed like the anxiety. It's hard to tell. It seems like a see-saw sometimes.