I hate to use generalizations, but many Asian families have very high expectations for their children. I work with a Chinese woman and she complains frequently that her daughter has gained weight, didn't get an A+, missed a question on a test, is dating a boy with a lower degree than her, isn't dating anybody, etc. I really don't offer much of a response, because I wasn't raised with those types of expectations. I have told her repeatedly that I have different values. This must have been difficult for Michelle who was more of an artist/free spirit.