The acts of kindness in the book have been adequately listed in the above posts. Does this neighborliness exist still, yes, but it depends upon the people involved. I live in a small Vermont town--the old families who've lived here for generations show this attention and kindness to others in the town, including newcomers. BUT, many of the new folk are from big cities where no one looks at each other, rushing by with no interaction. They tend not to be as neighborly. Now, this is a generalization, of course, and there are exceptions. But by and large the difference between the families who have been brought up this way and those who have come into the community is this. Yet, recently, when flying to Europe and back, I found that people were incredibly caring and helpful to each other. Getting luggage down from the overhead bin for older or shorter people, allowing others in line ahead of themselves, etc. I was amazed at that is such crowded and fast moving places.