"The lessons that these animals taught me have been subtle, startling, and inspirational, playing a small but vital part in helping to shape the person you see with the stethoscope around his neck." - Dr. Nick Trout
New York Times bestselling author Nick Trout has captivated readers by taking them behind the scenes into the heartwarming - and sometimes heartrending - world of veterinary medicine. In Ever By My Side, Nick turns the lens inward to offer a funny, moving, and intimate memoir about how the pets he has had throughout his life have shaped him into the son, husband, father, and doctor he is today. Using his relationships with those beloved animals to tell his life story, Nick shares the profound lessons he's learned about friendship, loyalty, and resilience. The result is a moving story that speaks not just to animal lovers, but to any reader who appreciates the bonds we have with our loved ones, be they animal or human, and the lengths to which we go to nurture those bonds.
Nick waxes nostalgic about his boyhood in a working-class British suburb, where a large German shepherd named Patch was the perfect companion to a scrawny, bookish boy in a neighborhood full of bullies. He writes about his relationship with his father, the man who nurtured Nick's dream of becoming a vet, even though he couldn't have imagined the career would lead his only son 3,000 miles away. He describes wooing his future wife and stepdaughter and (perhaps most difficult of all) their ornery cat. And he offers a poignant chronicle of his daughter's devastating diagnosis of cystic fibrosis and how a little yellow Labrador retriever played an important role in bringing joy to their family when they needed it most. Alongside Nick's warm reflections, the pets in these pages come alive as irresistible characters in their own right and showcase the power of animals to offer a lifetime of consolation, guidance, and abiding affection.
Tender, wry, and ruminative, Ever By My Side is a tribute to the power and beauty of ordinary life and a celebration of how pets make it all the sweeter and richer.
A Note from the Author A few years ago, when I was writing the acknowledgments section for Tell Me Where It Hurts, I thought long and hard about how I got to this point in my life and who I needed to thank. The process made me realize how often we fail to give credit where it is due. And so, as soon as I recovered from the excitement of opening a cardboard box packed full of my first published book, I shipped a copy across the pond to England, to one of my teachers from high school, a man named Harry Smith. Harry was an exceptional mathematician, but he was really teaching "lessons in life." I was blessed to be a member of his final class before his retirement and we had not been in touch for over twenty years. I knew he had to be getting on in years, in his mid-eighties at least, and I prayed he was still alive because I felt as though I never took the time to acknowledge the part he played in shaping my formative years.
Thankfully, some weeks later, I was rewarded with a letter in tiny, neat cursive:
Dear Nicholas, of all the mail I received in the lead up to Christmas, your letter stands out in my memory, and I thank you most sincerely for it. Each time I read it I feel a sense of pride in the realization that something of note was, after all, achieved in the time I spent teaching..."
My third book, Ever By My Side, germinated from a similar desire to recognize and celebrate some of the other unsung mentors of my life, both on two legs and on four. I'm talking about family - the one I grew up in and the one I have created - and all those animals along the way that I came to think of as my own pets. Ever By My Side is my attempt to share those moments in a lifetime in which the actions of a human or an animal changed my perspective and left me with a lesson I would never forget. In sharing their legacy, I'm really saying "thank you" for all the opportunities that have shaped my life. - Nick Trout
This heartwarming memoir received wonderful ratings from BookBrowse readers: 39 out of 42 reviewers rated Ever By My Side 4 or 5 stars! Here's what they have to say:
Ever By My Side is so much more than a pet story, covering family dynamics through two generations (Carrol Ann S). His honesty in dealing with both good and difficult situations is very appealing (Karla S), and I found it to be a joyful book to read, not because every story is joyful, but because it left me feeling so grateful for the pets (and the people) I've been blessed to know in my life (Karen S). The style is light and informative without getting too technical with any of the veterinary details (WDH). His style is conversational and makes you want to listen to all he has to say (Joan P). (Reviewed by BookBrowse First Impression Reviewers).
A tender tribute to the author's father, sure to please fans of Trout's previous two pet-focused books.
Pet owners will be instantly captivated, empathizing and amused by Trout's stories of dog antics, feline aloofness, and the indescribable joy of sharing one's life with the animals.
Recent Reader Reviews
Rated of 5
by Dorothy T. Side by side This book is not only about pet and owner relationships -- just as important are the family relationships explored by the author, including a tribute to his father. This is a moving and funny work by a gifted writer.
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by Linda J. (Manchester, MO) Ever By My Side This book is must reading for anyone who has a pet, has had a pet, or will have a pet.
Veterinarian Dr. Nick Trout’s accounting of his journey to veterinary medicine grabs the heartstrings and tickles the funny bone.
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Rated of 5
by Karen S. (Minneapolis, MN) Loved this book! I was delighted with this book, both the heartwarming stories and the wonderfully descriptive use of language. I found it to be just a joyful book to read, not because every story is joyful, but because it left me feeling so grateful for the pets... Read More
Rated of 5
by Laura F. (Diablo, CA) For the Love of Animals and Family I was so looking forward to another book written by Dr. Nick Trout - I devoured his first book "Tell Me Where it Hurts". and looked forward to his next books like I did when I was younger waiting for the next James Herriot book to be published-I... Read More
Rated of 5
by Janice H. (Savage, Minnesota) Wonderful Dog Memories Ever By My Side by Dr Nick Trout is a wonderful tribute to the animals in his life and an enjoyable read. The author is a great storyteller and tells stories that make you laugh and sometimes cry right along with him. It’s a great story of the... Read More
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by WDH (New Port Richey, FL) Easy Read / Slightly Uneven This book was very easy to read. The style is light and informative without getting too technical with any of the veterinary details. I enjoyed the stories about his parents and their family dogs and the author does a great job explaining cat... Read More
Veterinary surgeon and New York Times bestselling author Dr. Nick Trout is beloved among readers and is often compared to the late English veterinary surgeon James Herriot, author of the classic memoir All Creatures Great and Small. In an interview with Boston Magazine, Dr. Trout describes his feelings about this comparison:
I grew up reading James Herriot, and was fortunate to meet the man himself when I was a kid and my parents lived in the heart of Herriot country, in the Yorkshire Dales. There will only be one James Herriot and no one else will ever come close. I can only try to bring his stories into the 21st century and, in doing so, try to point out that the humor and the pathos of Herriot's novels, the passion to heal sick animals, the quirky and charming characters, still exists in today's veterinary medicine.
It is clear that Dr. Trout's writing shares Herriot's compassion and sense of humor - not only in Ever By My Side but in his prior works as well:
Three broken souls, and one dog: Pax. All three of them need healing. All three of them are lost. And in Susan Wilson's A Man of His Own, Pax, with his unconditional love and unwavering loyalty, may be the only one who can guide them home.
When Mark Doty decides to adopt a dog as a companion for his dying partner, he brings home Beau, a golden retriever. A moving and intimate memoir interwoven with profound reflections on our feelings for animals and the lessons they teach us about life, love, and loss.
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