Reading Guide Questions
Please be aware that this discussion guide will contain spoilers!
About This Book
In this eagerly awaited new novel, Lionel Shriver, the Orange Prize-winning
author of the international bestseller
We Need to Talk About Kevin,
delivers an imaginative and entertaining look at the implications, large and
small, of whom we choose to love. Using a playful parallel-universe structure,
The Post-Birthday World follows one woman's future as it unfolds under
the influence of two drastically different men.
Children's book illustrator Irina McGovern enjoys a quiet and settled life in
London with her partner, fellow American expatriate Lawrence Trainer, a smart,
loyal, disciplined intellectual at a prestigious think tank. To their small
circle of friends, their relationship is rock solid. Until the night Irina
unaccountably finds herself dying to kiss another man: their old friend from
South London, the stylish, extravagant, passionate top-ranking snooker player
Ramsey Acton. The decision to give in to temptation will have consequences for
her career, her relationships with family and friends, and perhaps most
importantly the texture of her daily life.
Hinging on a single kiss, this enchanting work of fiction depicts Irina's
alternating futures with two men temperamentally worlds apart yet equally
honorable. With which true love Irina is better off is neither obvious nor easy
to determine, but Shriver's exploration of the two destinies is memorable and
gripping. Poignant and deeply honest, written with the subtlety and wit that are
the hallmarks of Shriver's work,
The Post-Birthday World appeals to the
what-if in us all.
Questions for Discussion
- In The Post-Birthday World, we get to see Irina lead two very
different lives based on a choice she makes between two men. Have you ever
wondered what your life would be like had you chosen a different path?
- In each universe that Irina inhabits, she is drawn to the man she let
go. Do we always want what we can't have? Why are the choices that we didn't
make so appealing in retrospect?
- In the characters of Lawrence and Ramsey, Irina is offered the choice
between two opposites: where Lawrence is predictable, Ramsey is wild; where
Ramsey is extravagant, Lawrence is disciplined. Do you think that by casting
the men so differently Shriver is portraying general male stereotypes, or is
there some truth in these characters? What are the pros and cons of each man
as a partner? Do women prefer one type to another at different times in
their lives? Why?
- Is Irina the same person in her relationship with Lawrence as she is in
her relationship with Ramsey? Do you think that the person you're with
determines the person you are, or would you be the same person no matter
with whom you're in a relationship?
- Irina is happy and unhappy in both universes, with both men. Who do you
think Irina is happiest with? If she had both men before her and could see
her different lives with each, which man would she choose? Which man would
you choose to be with?
- Irina is a self-sufficient and highly successful woman, yet throughout
The Post-Birthday World she believes that her ultimate happiness will
come from a man. Does Irina's recognition that she needs a man in her life
characterize her as a throwback to a pre-feminist era, or can she need a man
in her life and still be self-actualized?
- Children are completely absent from this story. How does this affect the
characters, their decisions, and their relationships?
- How much of our choice about the person we end up in a relationship with
has to do with fate and how much has to do with the decisions we make over
the course of our lives? And are the decisions you might make in your 20s
different from the choices you'd make in your 30s, 40s, or 50s?
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