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Gilbert writes that the appreciation of pleasure can be the anchor of humanity, making the argument that America is an entertainment-seeking nation, not necessarily a pleasure-seeking one. Is this a fair assessment?
After imagining a petition to God for divorce, an exhausted Gilbert answers her phone to news that her husband has finally signed. During a moment of quietude before a Roman fountain, she opens her Louise Glück collection to a verse about a fountain, one reminiscent of the Balinese medicine mans drawing. After struggling to master a 182-verse daily prayer, she succeeds by focusing on her nephew, who suddenly is free from nightmares. Do these incidents of fortuitous timing signal fate? Cosmic unity? Coincidence?
Gilbert hashes out internal debates in a notebook, a place where she can argue with her inner demons and remind herself about the constancy of self-love. When an inner monologue becomes a literal conversation between a divided self, is this a sign of last resort or of self-reliance?
When Gilbert finally returns to Bali and seeks out the medicine man who foretold her return to study with him, he doesnt recognize her. Despite her despair, she persists in her attempts to spark his memory, eventually succeeding. How much of the success of Gilberts journey do you attribute to persistence?
Prayer and meditation are both things that can be learned and, importantly, improved. In India, Gilbert learns a stoic, ascetic meditation technique. In Bali, she learns an approach based on smiling. Do you think the two can be synergistic? Or is Ketut Liyer right when he describes them as same-same?
Gender roles come up repeatedly in Eat, Pray, Love, be it macho Italian men eating cream puffs after a home teams soccer loss, or a young Indians disdain for the marriage she will be expected to embark upon at age eighteen, or the Balinese healers sly approach to male impotence in a society where women are assumed responsible for their childlessness. How relevant is Gilberts gender?
In what ways is spiritual success similar to other forms of success? How is it different? Can they be so fundamentally different that theyre not comparable?
Do you think people are more open to new experiences when they travel? And why?
Abstinence in Italy seems extreme, but necessary, for a woman who has repeatedly moved from one mans arms to anothers. After all, its only after Gilbert has found herself that she can share herself fully in love. What does this say about her earlier relationships?
ilbert mentions her ease at making friends, regardless of where she is. At one point at the ashram, she realizes that she is too sociable and decides to embark on a period of silence, to become the Quiet Girl in the Back of the Temple. It is just after making this decision that she is assigned the role of ashram key hostess. What does this say about honing ones nature rather than trying to escape it? Do you think perceived faults can be transformed into strengths rather than merely repressed?
Sitting in an outdoor café in Rome, Gilberts friend declares that every cityand every personhas a word. Romes is sex, the Vaticans power; Gilbert declares New Yorks to be achieve, but only later stumbles upon her own word, antevasin, Sanskrit for one who lives at the border. What is your word? Is it possible to choose a word that retains its truth for a lifetime?
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