Very true. That's why you just have to live a life true to yourself and just live each day to the fullest, crossing each hurdle as it comes. If you stop to compare your hurdles to others' hurdles and see if life is fair, you will lose out on life itself. We are each in a life that we need to live to the fullest. We need to be able to judge ourselves and make our own corrections to lead what we consider a loving, considerate, and successful life, leaving others to judge themselves and deal with their own consequences. If we were all the same, what a boring world it would be!