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A Box of Darkness:
The Story of a Marriage
by Sally Ryder Brady

Publisher: St. Martin's Press
Publication date: 02/01/2011.
Biographies/Memoirs, 256 pp.

Number of reader reviews: 22
Readers' Consensus: 4.5
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Rated 5 of 5 of 5 by Judith G. (Ewa Beach, HI)

Surprises and more surprises
Beginning with a 'forgotten' cache of ashes it was apparent how the book would end. But the in-between was fascinating reading. How a marriage of such long-standing could survive the secrets and trials...one can only wonder. Sally Brady walks a fine line interspersing poignancy and humor. I couldn't wait to finish the book.

Rated 5 of 5 of 5 by Sandra E. (Bend, OR)

A Box of Darkness
This book is a love story - not only from the standpoint of a wife/mother of a couple who were beautiful and wealthy "golden children" of the Brahmin upper classes in that sparkling segment of 1930's America, but of fierce introspection and courageous change and transcendence.

It's the story of the maternal devotion of an impeccably educated and dynamic mother who creates a necessary parallel universe for herself and her four gifted children, whose safety she guards tenaciously from their larger-than-life father, himself pursued by compulsively destructive demons.

Before words like "codependence" and "enabling" and "enmeshment" and "emotional abandonment" were part of our everyday vocabulary, Sally Ryder Brady was leading a life in which her natural and very considerable resourcefulness equipped her to survive all the above, while projecting a montage of secure and happy family life which dazzled observers.

Her brilliant and handsome husband - who appears to have been the quintessential Renaissance Man - harbored dark secrets. Sally literally uncovered them after his death.

Her time of grieving not only the loss of her charismatic husband to death - but of the "dream" which their marriage had embodied in its external glamour to others - and to Sally - portrays an intensely courageous and personal journey and metamorphosis during which Sally "comes home to herself".

This book was written and published with uncommon bravery; it has beautiful prose and dialogue which captivates from page one. I would thoroughly recommend it for book groups. A favorite book for me of the past decade.

Rated 4 of 5 of 5 by Mary Lou F. (Naples, FL)

Do You Really Know Someone?
This book is about a long-term marriage and love story with dark shadows. You think you know someone after being married over forty years, but do you really? Very well written but very sad.

Rated 4 of 5 of 5 by Vicky R. (Cumming, GA)

A Box of Darkness
Most of us are married or have been married, so what makes us spend time reading about someone else's marriage? I wasn't sure if this story line was enough to capture me and keep me reading until the end....I was surprised. The author's descriptions of her sometimes blissful and often painful relationship with Upton, her husband were captivating. It was an unusual marriage, crowded with many secrets, and the author does a wonderful job of making you feel connected to the people involved. I realized as I read, that I was asking myself questions along the way - always a good sign of a good book - "Would I stay with this man?" "What would make me stay with him?". "What kind of charm must someone possess to make me overlook all the other negatives and secrets?" "Do I even know anyone like this?".

I believe that a book that can make me spend this much time thinking about it, is a success and I enjoyed the time I spent reading it. Toward the end, the author asks, "Would Upton be upset if he knew I was writing this story?". I think the answer to that question is, "Absolutely he would be upset! He would not have wanted his wife to tell this story!"...but the rest of us are glad she did.

Rated 4 of 5 of 5 by Vicki O. (Boston, MA)

A Moving Memoir
It is fortunate that Sally Brady listened to her friend, Morgan, and son, Andrew, when they encouraged her to tell the story of her marriage to Upton Brady. What results is a pouring out of intense emotions as the author relates the powerful events that unfolded during the course of her 46-year marriage. Her style is so perfectly suited to the memoir genre that the reader cannot help being moved. It’s worth reading, but be prepared for a roller coaster ride that you won’t forget.

Rated 4 of 5 of 5 by Amber B. (Canton, Ohio)

Telling the Truth
Sally Ryder Brady is a magnetic story teller. Readers will follow her journey with the same sense of wonder, mystery, pride, and pain that she encountered in her 46-year relationship with an extremely complicated man. I felt bewildered by some of the choices that she made, but also understand how they seemed to make sense to her. This story will give book groups a LOT to discuss!

Rated 4 of 5 of 5 by Carolyn A. (Sarasota, Florida)

Marriage is Forever?
The story of Sally Ryder Brady's tormented marriage to Upton Brady must be read with an open heart. "It is was it is" can lead to an enlighten conversation about what each partner brings to a marriage, the laughter and the tears. This book can begin a soul-searching discussion with others or a private re-affirmation. It will be sure to go on my book club to-read list.

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